Super Responsiveness

You have read many examples of super responsiveness in this book. Interestingly, the really sexual women can become super responsive very quickly. Here is an example. But this one got off to a very unresponsive start.

My work in the computer business had become increasingly stressful and demanding. As a result, my girlfriend and I broke up. I became engrossed in my career and worked long hours.

But one evening, I decided to relax at a popular coffee shop, where I met a very interesting woman. She had a fascinating background in corporate sales in the communications industry. Our conversation indicated that she was a very sexual person. I violated one of my cardinal rules and decided to tell her about the book I wrote, just to see what she would say. She was fascinated and wanted to know more.

She was a very intelligent woman. She had a vivid imagination. And, she had all the classic signs of a highly sexual woman. However, she failed on one very important test. She was not a daddy's girl. In fact, she had a very controlling father. I violated another of my cardinal rules by continuing. The next night we went to a nearby restaurant for dinner. We then went to my place for sex.

She was very turned on and as dripping wet as I have ever seen. However, none of my stuff was working. I used the deep spot on her, and she was loving it, but after many minutes she still had not come. Then I used the welcomed method on her, and she was loving that, but after many minutes she still had not come.

So I told her that it would be very exciting for me to watch her masturbate. She did, and she came. Then more playing around and then I told her to masturbate again and she came again.

I knew that nothing was going to work, not even fucking her. But I violated another of my cardinal rules and did it anyway. Of course, that didn't work.

In our conversation later, she confided that she was unable to "loose control." She also revealed that after hearing about my book, she felt "inadequate." That is because she is not sexually self confident, probably because she is not a daddy's girl.

Don't make the same mistakes I made.

Don't tell a woman all the things you have been able to make women experience.

Don't date a woman who is not a daddy's girl, or at the very least, don't date a woman that has control issues.

Don't fuck her if you know it ain't gonna make her come like crazy.

Instead, choose a daddy's girl, or at the very least, a woman who enjoys loosing control.

Then, only one at a time, expand her envelope of sexuality. As I have always said, expanding a woman's envelope of sexuality is a very personalized experience that moves along incrementally.

Finally, intercourse ALWAYS results in her orgasm.

DAVID SHADE'S MANUAL Anyway, the following night she and I spoke on the phone. She had read my book and had flattering comments. About a half hour into the conversation, it became evident that she wanted to have phone sex. I wanted to use the opportunity to condition her mind to be responsive to me.

Me: I have to ask you, how did you like that part where it is possible for a woman to believe she has a penis?

Her: I can't imagine that. I can't imagine what it must be like to be a man and walk around with balls.

Me: What do you think it would be like to have balls? Her: Oh, that would be too weird!

Me: If you were to have balls, could you feel them against your thighs? Her: No, I cannot imagine that.

Me: That's ok. What I want you to do is I want you to imagine that you could imagine what it would be like to have balls. Her: (silence) Me: Can you do that? Her: Yes.

Me: Can you feel your balls? Her: Yes.

Me: Can you feel your balls resting between your thighs? Her: Yes. Me: That's kind of a strange feeling, isn't it? Her: Yes.

Me: And to feel that is kind of exciting, isn't it? Her: (softly) Yes.

Me: In fact, it is beginning to make you excited knowing that you can actually imagine having a cock. Her: (silence)

Me: You can feel your cock right now, isn't that right? Her: (silence)

Me: Can you feel your cock? Her: Yes.

Me: In fact, it is so exciting, that you can actually feel your cock getting hard, isn't that right?

Me: Your cock is getting so excited that it craves to be touched. Touch your cock.

Her: (silence)

Me: Are you touching your cock? Her: No.

Me: What are you doing?

Her: I am imagining in my mind that I am.

Me: That's good. It feels pretty good, doesn't it?

Me: In fact, it feels so fucking good that your cock wants you to stroke it. Stroke your cock. That feels so incredible, doesn't it? Her: (breathlessly) Yes.

I continued leading her through it, and she became increasingly excited. And then, she had an orgasm.

After she caught her breath, she said:

Her: That was WILD!

Me: That's wonderful Baby. Can you describe it?

Her: It was so real. It was external to me. It was really in my cock. Me: Good Baby. Could you actually feel yourself ejaculating?

Her: Oh my God Yes. I can even describe to you where the penis is most sensitive. It is along the front right under the head. Me: That's right Baby. That's wonderful.

Her: That was too WEIRD! That was WILD!

Me: I adore how you can so vividly imagine the things I describe to you. Another thing I adore so much about you is how you get so wet. That is so exciting to me. I am sure you are very wet right now.

Me: I love touching you and feeling your wetness. I love touching your clit and making you so excited. Imagine in your mind that I am touching your clit right now. Can you feel me touching your clit?

I lead her through that and she had another orgasm.

Me: I adore how you are so responsive to my words, Baby. That gives me great pleasure. And I know it makes you so excited knowing that you are very responsive to my words, isn't that right Baby?

Me: In fact, you know that I can make you feel anything, isn't that right?

Me: And knowing that you will feel anything that I describe to you makes you so excited, isn't that right Baby?

Me: You are so excited knowing that you are going to experience anything that I describe to you, isn't that right?

Me: And when I describe to you what you are to experience, you experience it instantly, isn't that right?

Me: I am going to count to 10. And when I get to 10, you are going to instantly have an orgasm.

Me: When I get to 10, you are going to instantly have a powerful orgasm. And you know that is going to be true, don't you?

Her: (softly)Yes.

Me: And that makes you very excited, doesn't it?

Her: (breathlessly) Yes.

Me: One! You are getting very excited knowing that you are going to have an orgasm when I get to 10.

Her: (breathlessly) Oh God.

Me: Two! You are so flicking wet and excited. You are going to come so fucking hard.

Me: Three! You are getting even more excited. You know it is going to be true. You know you are going to come so hard!

Her: (panting)

I continued, and right on 10, she instantly had an orgasm. I kept telling her "Come Now! Come Hard! Keep Coming Baby!" I wanted to associate the "Come Now" command with her having an orgasm.

After she quieted down, I said to her:

Me: That was so exciting Baby. That pleases me greatly that you are so very responsive to my commands. You now know that I can make you feel any kind of wonderful pleasure.

Her: Yes

Me: And you know that I can make you feel it powerfully.

Her: Yes

Me: And you know that I can make you feel it INSTANTLY! Her: Yes

Me: I am going to say the words to you "Come Now" and when I do, you are going to INSTANTLY have a very powerful total mind and body orgasm. Isn't that right Baby?

Me: And it is going to happen powerfully. And it is going to happen instantly. Isn't that right Baby?

Her: (breathlessly) Yes.

Me: And I am going to say those words to you now, and when I do, you are going to come so fucking hard. And it is going to happen POWERFULLY. And it is going to happen INSTANTLY. And it is going to happen NOW! COME NOW!

She instantly started having an orgasm. I continued coaching her through it, hard, and she came for over a minute.

So, there you have it. A formal hypnotic induction is not required to allow a woman to experience having a penis, or to have an instant orgasm on command. No somnambulism required. Just very deep rapport, and a BELIEF on her part that it will be true. That belief is only possible with respect.

Two nights later she came over. We sat on the couch and talked for a long time. She is highly educated and very well read. Eventually the conversation moved onto topics of a sexual nature. I had to know if the instant orgasm on command would work again. I said to her:

Me: Do you remember those two words that I tell you?

Her: No, what two words?

Me: Those two words which you respond to powerfully and immediately.

Me: When I say those two words, you instantly have an orgasm. And I am going to say them now, and it is going to happen instantly. Come now.

Nothing happened. I could not believe she did not remember that part of our last phone conversation. I did not know if she did not remember or if she was just resisting. Then she said:

Her: Oh my God. I just instantly got soaking wet!

Me: I know, that is because your subconscious mind is in complete control of your body, and your subconscious mind remembers all the things we talked about.

That was a powerful convincer for her. Then we went into the bedroom. She was able to totally let go and she was super responsive to me, and she came many times, including in intercourse.

The following night we spoke on the phone. She said that she very much enjoyed reading my book, but at the same time wished she had not read it, because she thought that nothing would be left to surprise. That is the last time I will make that mistake.

When the topic of discussion got onto sex, I wanted to learn her past sexual experiences and employ them to progress things along. I knew from earlier conversations that she has enjoyed anal sex before and that she finds women attractive. I wanted her to be excited about her and me picking up another woman and both of us fucking the woman. I took a risky approach...

Me: What is the wildest thing you have ever done?

Her: It was a birthday present. The man I was dating brought over another man.

Me: How was that for you?

Her: It was kind of exciting being with two men. But I trusted the man I was dating. And I knew that the guy would not be calling me or anything like that.

Me: Would you consider ever doing that again?

Her: I have never given it any thought. I would really have to trust the man I was dating.

Me: Have you ever been with another woman?

Her: Oh yes. I think women are beautiful. You know, I was seeing a married couple for a while.

Me: How was that?

Her: It was purely sex, and the sex was great. I got the best of both worlds.

Her: Because he started calling me. That was outside of the arrangement, so I ended it.

Me: What is the wildest fantasy you have ever had?

Her: Oh no, it's your turn! What is the wildest thing you have ever done?

Me: I can tell you that I have never enlisted a friend to help me fuck my girlfriend.

Me: But I have to admit, that sounds very taboo, because of the simple fact that nothing affects a man more powerfully than the thought of his woman sleeping with another man. And it is because of that threat that it would be so exciting.

Her: Yes, very true.

Me: So, if I were to bring you a birthday present, would you enjoy that?

Her: Yes. I trust you completely David.

Me: But in order that it be very exciting, would you show great enthusiasm while he fucks you?

Her: Yes. Would you kiss me while he fucks me?

Me: Yes, I would. Would you come really hard for me?

Her: Yes. David, you constantly amaze me, though I shouldn't be surprised. You are not into the fantasies of most men, which are about them getting off, but you are moved by scenarios and experiences.

Me: Most men fantasize about threesomes.

Her: Ha ha, yes, they do. Have you ever had a threesome? Me: Yes.

Her: How was that for you?

Me: They have always been a beautiful expression of sensuality and raw sexuality. And for a woman, a threesome is a study in contrasts. You feel the gentle caress of a beautiful submissive woman's soft body, and you feel the protective hold of a strong dominant man, and you feel them at the same time. In one position you surrender completely to the passion, and in another position you pair up with another to make the third come very hard. Her: Yes.

Me: In the context that it is something that we do together as an expression and celebration of our sexuality, can you imagine you and me being with another woman?

Her: Oh yes. That would be very exciting.

Me: Can you imagine how exciting it would be to be with another woman?

Me: And would you show great enthusiasm while she fucks you? Her: Oh yes! Of course I would!

Me: And would you be excited by watching me fuck her? Her: Oh yes. Would you kiss me while you fuck her? Me: Oh yes, that would make me come very hard. Her: On yes.

Me: Would you want me to come very hard?

Her: Oh yes. I want you to come very hard.

Me: Let's both make her come very hard. While I fuck her, I want you to lick her clit.

Me: Can you imagine how fucking hard we could make her come? Her: Oh my God yes.

Me: Can you imagine you and me going out to meet a woman? Her: I sure can.

Me: Would you be comfortable talking to women?

Her: You know me David. I can talk to anyone anywhere!

Me: Would you be comfortable inviting her to come back with us to our bedroom?

Her: Oh sure. That's no problem.

Me: That would be so much fun.

Her: Yes it would.

Me: Do you remember those two words I tell you? Her: Yes.

Me: And you do remember how when I say them to you, they act instantly, and they act powerfully? Her: (softly) Yes.

Me: And when they do, they keep on working for as long as I want them to, isn't that right?

Her: (softly and with anticipation) Yes.

She instantly starting having an orgasm. I coached her through it and kept her going for about 5 minutes. She was becoming super responsive to me. Then I told her to stop.

After she rested, I said to her "Now, I want you to become completely relaxed. You are going to experience something truly amazing. As you remain completely relaxed, as you continue to breath normally, you can continue to remain completely relaxed, and you can very quietly Come Now! While you remain completely relaxed, and you continue to breath normally, you can Come Now! Come Hard! Even while you remain completely relaxed, you can come hard."

She did remain relaxed, but her breathing did get somewhat choppy. She was coming very hard, yet still relaxed. It was amazing; even without a formal hypnotic induction, she was coming very hard yet very relaxed. I continued talking her through it for another 10 minutes.

I wanted to set up what we would do the next time she came over, so while she was still coming, I said to her:

Me: As you continue to come, you are able to speak in a normal voice, and you are able to answer me now, are you coming really hard?

Me: As you continue to come very hard, you are able to speak in a normal voice. Tell me now, how hard are you coming right now? Her: (Softly) I am coming so hard.

Me: Even as you remain completely relaxed, while you are coming very hard, you can feel my cock in your ass. Feel my cock in your ass. Can you feel my cock in your ass?

Me: As you feel my cock driving in and out of your ass, it makes you come even harder.

Me: You love it when I fuck you hard up the ass, and it makes you come so fucking hard.

The following night she came over, and she insisted on taking it up the pooper.

Notice that her responsiveness to me, and all the things she enjoyed, were done without actually "hypnotizing" her. Making it her reality that she had a penis and making her 'jack off, the ten count to orgasm, instant orgasm on command, and extended orgasm.

But it did not happen until after I engaged her imagination.

You see, you don't need to "hypnotize" a woman in order to do all these things.

And remember this: Responsiveness is the reflexive surrender to a convincing believable respected power. When a man is so personally and sensually powerful that a woman would reflexively and happily surrender herself completely to him to do with her as he pleased, she becomes all the woman she has ever dreamed of being. And THAT brings her true fulfillment

"No matter how hard the shell, they all have a soft chewy center." David Shade

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