I set out to help my girlfriend lose her anal virginity. So, for you rump rangers who wanna do your girlfriend's dirt chute and pack some brown, here's how it all went down.
On a number of occasions, while my girlfriend had been on all fours, I have used my middle finger to stimulate the back wall of her vagina very deeply. After one such occasion, she said "That almost felt as if I were getting butt fucked." I asked her if she liked that feeling. She said "Oh yes, it was very exciting." I asked her if she had ever tried anal sex, and she said "Yes, once, but it was too painful and I did not want to do it." I asked her if she might someday consider trying it again and she said "No!"
A week later I was playing with her, using my fingers, while she was lying on her back. She was wet to the point of dripping down onto the sheets. While she was concentrating on what would soon be her orgasm, and while she was at the height of her receptivity, I allowed the lubricated tip of my pinky finger to press against her anus. There was no objection. I pressed harder to just slide the tip of my pinky in, up to the first joint. Her concentration popped. I assured her I would be gentle. I did not, however, remove my pinky. I slowly resumed the vaginal stimulation, and she resumed her concentration. When she got really close, I pressed my pinky in just a little farther, up to the second joint. She didn't seem to notice. Then when she started her orgasm, I gently slid my pinky out and back in a few times. The association was made, albeit small.
We talked about it later and she said it had been exciting for her. But I could not help thinking about how tight it was just to get the tip of my pinky in, and wondering how in the hell she is gonna take in the helmeted gladiator. But then I thought, hey, she's been layin' pipe for near 30 years now, so it should not be that much of a stretch for her to sit on this.
At times, I will narrate a fantasy into my girlfriend's ear. She loves it and can really get into it. For her, anything is possible in a fantasy, even though it may not be something that she would actually do herself. She really gets off on being an apparently "very proper woman" on the outside, while on the inside being a "very naughty girl." I use that framework, which really gets her into it.
So, about a week later, while she was lying on her stomach, I began to stimulate her vagina with my fingers. As I have in some nights past, I supplemented her natural lubrication with a little application of Astro Glide. However, this time, I happened to have 'accidentally' spilled some on her ass. Ooops. I used my middle finger to rub the lubrication onto her anus. I began narrating a fantasy about me fucking her in the ass. While I narrated the fantasy into her ear, I gently pressed the tip of my middle finger into her anus. I told her that it makes her feel very naughty. Even though she was a little apprehensive, she did get into the story. I carefully pressed my finger in a little deeper and then let it slide back out a little. I continued narrating the fantasy to her while driving my finger deeper. She was very preoccupied by the story
DAVID SHADE'S MANUAL and she started becoming extremely excited. I talked to her more deterministically and drove my finger harder and faster. She was going crazy. I told her how naughty she was and how much of a bad girl she was and I told her to come like a good girl, firing off the auditory anchors I had set many times before. Her entire body arched and she had an orgasm! Another anchor set. A sliding anchor at that.
We talked about it later, and she said she found it very exciting. She said she loved the orgasm and said she didn't know where it came from, but it made her feel good all throughout. She did say "That is the kind of thing you could only do when I am VERY sexually aroused." I can see to that.
The following week, she had a minor operation on her cervix to remove a spot. Not an uncommon operation for women in their 20's and early 30's. When she arrived for our date, she said "The doctor said I can't have sex for 3 weeks, but, my clitoris still works!" This was my chance.
On our date I made it a point to make her feel very special and beautiful. I also fired off all the anchors that I knew would drive her crazy with desire. Later, when we were in bed, I gave her an amazing face fuck while I also had my finger in her anus. For this woman, one orgasm is not enough, it is only the beginning. I said "It is too bad we cannot make love, you know how exciting that is for me." She said "Oh yes." And she saw that I was. I said "We have such a wonderful relationship, we are so into pleasing each other." She said "Yes, it is wonderful." I said "You know how I love to do anything for you, that I derive my greatest pleasure from pleasing you." She said "Oh yes, I know that." I said "And I know that you derive great pleasure from pleasing me." She said "I do David" and she was probably thinking I was thinking about a blow job. She said "What would you like to do?" I said "Remember the last time we were together, and how exciting it was for you when I had my finger in your anus?" She had a somewhat embarrassed smile. I said "Since we cannot make love the usual way, I would like to make love to you that way." She got a very embarrassed look on her face, and then a big smile. I said "I know you derive great pleasure from pleasing me." She said "Yes, I do" and she gave me a very loving kiss. Then she reached for the Astro Glide, and lubed me up, and then she assumed the position, and handed the Astro Glide to me. I lubed her up and then I told her to be very gentle with me. hehe. Then I was very careful and went very slowly. Once buried, she found it to be VERY exciting, and she became relaxed and receptive. Then it was pretty much business as usual. I fired off the usual auditory anchors, and before long, she had a very powerful orgasm. The dirty deed was done.
"It's only taboo the first time. After that, it's just what we do." Mark Cunningham
DAVID SHADE'S MANUAL Behold the Power
The following weekend I attended Mark's hypnosis seminar. You had read about that in chapter 1, and what is possible with hypnosis.
The day after giving my girlfriend a penis, I decided to try another experiment. I said to her, "I will show you how YOU can allow YOURSELF to have an orgasm without ANY stimulation whatsoever. I want you to go deeply into trance." And I hypnotized her.
Then I said to her "You can already feel how excited you are. You can already feel your clit become hard and sensitive. You can already feel your vagina begin to lubricate. Now, you can allow yourself to come. Allow your cervix to dilate. Allow the depth of your vagina to balloon. Allow the opening of your vagina to clamp down. Allow the pleasures of your vagina to consume you." I repeated the above sentences over and over. She was concentrating very well. Even though her hands were at her sides, things were progressing along nicely. It was amazing to watch. Her concentration intensified, and within a few moments, she had a raging, bed shaking orgasm.
We talked about it later and she said "It was like I BECAME my vagina. I gave my vagina a mind of its own. My mind provided the thrusting sensations. I was freaking out. It was incredible! I can't believe this!"
Now back to our back door story. A few days later, my girlfriend and I were talking on the phone planning our date for the following Saturday night. She mentioned that she wanted to be hypnotized again. Later in the conversation, she also mentioned that she wanted to do anal again some time.
When she arrived for our date, I had her take a seat on the couch and I hypnotized her. While she was deep in trance, I said to her, "Throughout this evening, you will become increasingly aware of how much you want me to fuck you in the ass. Throughout this evening, you will become increasingly aware of how much you want my cock in your ass. Your ass will be SO horny. And you won't know why, because you will keep it a secret from yourself that I told you this. Tonight, whenever I say your name to you, you will think of how much you want me to fuck you in the ass. Every time I say your name to you, your ass will become even hornier than before. And you won't know why, because you will keep it a secret from yourself that I told you this."
(Credit for the "you will keep it a secret from yourself part goes to Ross. It has advantages over saying "you will forget.") Then I brought her completely out of hypnosis and back to complete consciousness. We left for dinner.
While at dinner, I mentioned her name a few times but there was no reaction. Then, while we were driving to the night club, she said to me "My damn cat has been such a pain, she is in heat and she has been walking around all week with her ASS in the air!" I knew that it was working. While at the night club, I mentioned her name a few more times. Then she placed her nose very close to mine and said "You've got
DAVID SHADE'S MANUAL something I want." I said "And what is that?" She said very slowly "Your cock." I said "And where do you want my cock?" She said slowly "My ass." It was only a matter of time now. I said her name a couple more times and then she said "Would you like to go home now?" Once at home, she lubed up me AND herself, and then she went at it like a cat in heat. She came very hard and very loud.
As we were falling asleep, I said to her "You have been keeping a secret from yourself this evening." She said "I have? What secret?" I said "When I snap my fingers, you will reveal your secret to yourself." I snapped my fingers and just watched her. A few seconds later she started laughing and then said "No WONDER you said my name so much!"
"Believe in hypnosis." Mark Cunningham
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Hypnosis has been defined as a state of heightened suggestibility in which the subject is able to uncritically accept ideas for self-improvement and act on them appropriately. When a hypnotist hypnotizes his subject, it is known as hetero-hypnosis. When an individual puts himself into a state of hypnosis, it is known as self-hypnosis.