A few of you have told me: "I want to hypnotize my girlfriend, but she won't let me." I have responded with: "What's with that? She'll let you stick your cock in her but she won't let you hypnotize her? Get a new girlfriend!" But in actuality, it is true, that many women would more easily fuck than go under hypnosis.
There are many reasons for this. The most often being that she fears that she will divulge her deepest darkest secrets while under hypnosis, or she fears that you will instruct her to do something 'unnatural' while under hypnosis.
There are those people who will never have anything to do with hypnosis, and there are those people who are 'trance junkies' as Mark calls them. But for those people who just want a little more information first, I tell them the following:
"I am a hypnotist. But it's not for everybody. It requires a person who is very intelligent, has a sense of adventure, is open to new learning, and a person who knows that the ultimate control is the confidence and courage to totally loose control. As for hypnosis, I had heard all the stories, like it could make me tell all my secrets, or it could make me do something that I didn't want to do. But I had also heard that it is used to help people. So instead of debating something that I didn't understand, I decided I would learn it myself and then make my decision. I was a bit skeptical, and a bit scared, but it was nothing like I expected. In fact, it was lots of fun, and a very powerful tool to help people, and help oneself. But the most interesting thing I learned, was... the more intelligent a person is, the better they respond to hypnosis."
In order to hypnotize your girlfriend, it is important to tell her the following:
You cannot be hypnotized unless you want to be hypnotized. You will remember absolutely everything.
Your subconscious is always working and always protecting you, even under hypnosis.
All of your senses are still working. In fact, they are heightened. Under hypnosis, you would not do anything that is contrary to any of your core beliefs.
I have no interest in any of your secrets, and you would not tell them anyway.
I have no interest in making you cluck like a chicken.
The only thing that will happen is that your busy chattering conscious mind will melt away and you will feel totally relaxed.
I will only put you under long enough for you to enjoy deep relaxation, and then I will take you right back out. No commands. No stage acts.
(In actuality, the above is not exactly completely accurate. It is possible to hypnotize somebody even though they do not know it, if there is rapport and she does not suspect. I have done it, using 'conversational hypnosis,' with women I have met in the coffee shops, and over the phone with women I have met on the net. Once you have her under hypnosis, you can bend many of the other rules, because you are in absolute control of her reality.) But we'll stick to consensual hypnosis...
Here is how a typical conversation could go between you and your girlfriend prior to consensual hypnosis. The example I use here is a conversation I had over the phone with a woman I met on the net. Her "I've never been able to be hypnotized before, I don't know if I can."
Me "What do you think it would be like to be hypnotized?" (Mark Cunningham tells us to ask that question.)
Her "Kinda scary. Maybe scary's not the right word for it. I think it would be kind of exciting too. Maybe because you would do things you wouldn't normally do, or you feel more at ease. But then on the other hand, you don't know what that other person would make you do."
Me "It is something that you do have to feel very comfortable doing. And you would have to be with somebody that you feel trust for. And certainly, in a hypnosis session, both people would agree before hand exactly what would occur and only what would occur."
Her "Exactly, cause then you would lose trust. Because you come out of hypnosis knowing!"
Me "0h absolutely, you remember everything. And, while under hypnosis, your senses are heightened, much heightened." Her "Oooooh, Oooooh, oh my goodness!"
Me "Oh yes, much heightened. That's one thing that makes it particularly exciting, all of your senses become much heightened. And you remember absolutely everything."
Me "I only hypnotize somebody who can 'feel comfortable about being hypnotized.' And the first time I only bring them into trance and then I bring them right back out. That's all I will do. Then it's up to them to decide what they want to do. Because, when a person is under hypnosis, it is true that they will follow commands. They will do that. But it is possible that they will come out of trance, they can always just pop out. So of course, I would only do what they asked me to do, what we agreed upon first. Only that. That way they can, feel completely comfortable about going deep into trance, and going deep into themselves, turning their awareness inside, and feeling completely comfortable with that. And, everybody can be hypnotized."
Her "Hmmm. Ya think so?"
Me "Oh yes, absolutely anybody can be hypnotized."
Her "I've heard people say that they cannot be hypnotized."
Me "Oh yes, I said that at one time too. I am the kind of person who, if there is something that I don't understand, I won't argue with somebody about it, I'm instead going to learn for myself, and then I can form my own statement and opinion. So I knew nothing about hypnosis. I just heard a bunch of things about it, and I thought it was kinda scary myself, so I decided I'm going to learn hypnosis and then I'm going to make my own decision about it. So I learned it, and I'm glad that I did. It's a wonderful experience. It's many times more powerful then meditation, many times more powerful." Her "Say that one more time!"
Me "Many times more powerful."
Her "Well that would be fun to try it some time. Just to see if it could be done."
Me "Well I would only hypnotize you over the phone if you felt completely comfortable about doing this, and only over the phone when you are in the privacy of your own home, where, you feel completely comfortable doing this."
Her "You can hypnotize me over the phone?"
Me "Absolutely can. It's easy."
Me "And you will experience meditation much more powerfully than you ever have before."
Her "Oh my goodness! I didn't know you could do it over the phone."
Me "Oh yes, absolutely."
Her "Hmmm. That's pretty wild. Well, should I ask you to try it?" Me "I don't try, I do."
Her "Because I have to experience this."
Me "Well all you have to do is ask me, and then we can discuss it." Her "OK, I want you to hypnotize me. Will you please?" Me "I will only do this if you feel comfortable doing this." Her "Yeah, I do!"
For what to say next, see "A complete script."
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