... absolute pleasure in your body? (note here that your voice tone has to match what you are describing!)
YOU: Great ... well, here's what I want you to do. Remember that time again, and see what you saw, hear what you heard and feel how it felt. And when those feelings reach their peak, just wiggle this little finger for me! (wiggle one of her pinky fingers).
(Watch for the wiggle ... when she gives it, reach over and touch her on the wrist or arm and say "PERFECT")
YOU: Great ... now do it again ... see what you saw, hear what you heard, and feel how it felt ... and when those feelings reach their peak, wiggle that finger.
(Watch for wiggle, and then repeat the touch and "PERFECT")
YOU One more time ... (put her through it once more!).
YOU: Good. Now, the theory behind anchoring is, that if you have someone in an intense state and you combine that state with a touch, every time you do the touch again they'll go back into the state. So, if were to say to you (notice the weasel phrase?), you know, I think we're having lots of fun talking here. In fact, it's so much fun, it can just feel PERFECT (reach over and touch her in the exact same place on wrist or arm), that sure would be feel great, don't you?
Now, as I've pointed out in my original book, "How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed!", once you've got the anchor established, you can fire it off anytime you want to, or just keep holding it to keep her in that state. You can further accelerate the state by using quotes, describing other people's experiences, or using sub-modalities.
Remember then: the key phrases/steps to anchor are:
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To do this successfully you need to build a clear path of action by using tools if necessary. These tools would be facts, evidence and stories which you know they can relate to. Plus you always want to have their best interests at heart, in other words, you know what is good for them