It feels to Feel Perfect Keep holding her wrist as shes experiencing this

And go through it again see what you saw, hear what you heard, feel how it felt. And when those feelings reach their peak, wiggle that finger. (Repeat the anchor process) You Ok, one more time (run her through it one more time) You Ok. Open your eyes. Now, the theory behind anchoring is, that if someone is in a certain state, and you combine that state with a touch or sound, when you repeat that touch they'll go back into that state. So if I were to say to...

Phase One Eliciting Her Relationship Values

You What's important to you in a relationship Her Oh, I don't know I guess mutual admiration. You Gee that is an important one. How do you know when Her Well I guess when I see things in him I really admire, that make me look up to him. And he expresses to me that there are things about me he really admires. You I agree that's a powerful one. Well, what else Her Oh a sense of humor. (Note here she's gone off track by naming a quality she wants in the man. Here's how you steer her back to values...

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You Have you ever thought about the difference about between attraction and being in love You Well, actually I think they take place in different settings. I mean attraction is what you experience when you're in the presence of that person, (point to yourself) and you're looking at them, and you maybe you think to yourself (pause) mmmm. And maybe you start to have certain (pause) thoughts, images and you know what that feels like, right You But falling in love, well I think you do that when...