Alot of guys will memorize certain things to say like "patterns" thinking that they have to get the words perfect and that they have to say the words in a certain order. A lot of times it just ends up sounding unnatural - like a "sales pitch".
Even their OWN EYES gloss over when they start into their SCHPIEL!!!
You can always tell when someone is talking AT you vs. talking WITH you.
Now, don't get me wrong though... If you talk with the right tonality and have the right body language, it often doesn't matter WHAT you say, so much as HOW you say it.
Now get ready to blow their minds because the next levels will get you doing just THAT. This is when you talk to them on THE deeper levels.
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