Have you ever noticed how lovers talk to each other and how they act around each other?
During college, I was watching a roommate of mine and his girlfriend interact one day and this occurred to me. They were sitting there on the couch cuddling, holding each other and talking "baby" talk to each other. He would even call her "baby" and you should've seen how they acted when they thought no one was looking. I was actually kind of embarrassed for him. He was this big macho guy and she was normally a strong willed confident woman - but around each other when they thought no one was paying attention, they both became "baby" like -they both regressed. I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking about. You may have even been there before.
So what is regression and how does it play into Seduction? Quite simply, regression is a return to a previous stage of psychological development. Some philosophers would say that "love" itself is a regression of sorts, and that the desire for love is actually motivated by a parental bond that developed during infancy and childhood. You can actually accelerate the seduction process by "regressing" your target by using some of the following techniques and concepts.
1) Comfort and trust are a prerequisite to regression
Remember Erickson's stages of development in Psychology 101? The first stage during infancy is Trust vs. Mistrust. Trust and comfort are the keys that lead back to this stage.
So why does teasing work so well for regression? Women love to feel like teenagers for one thing. Of course they would never admit to this - and it was during this time when they were discovering their sexuality and when they were having "first crushes". It was also during this time that they were out chasing boys more actively, before the boys started chasing them.
You can tease a woman verbally and also you can do things that tease her physically - like snapping a bra strap, giving her a "raspberry", or even a "nuggie". Although they may say they hate it, many women actually love this kind of thing.
3) Being the "Therapist"
Although this approach can be controversial, it actually can cause a regression quite effectively -maybe even dangerously so. Psychoanalysts have called this regression effect "transference" because as the person talks about their childhood and past memories, they transfer their parental father figure "bond" to their therapist. Freud actually used this method in Psychotherapy and he ended up with a number of his patients obsessed and falling in love with him.
So how would you use this? Get the woman to talk about her childhood. Have her describe her first memories with you, what she was like as a little girl, if she had a safe place or a favorite place that she would go to play. Also have her describe her first crush and her first kiss. what it was like and all the details about it.
4) You can regress her or you can regress with her
Regressing a woman is like having the "father figure" dynamic. Some women want this at an unconscious level actually - and you'll recognize these women by the demands that they make on you. They are looking for someone to take care of them - emotionally, physically, mentally. But it can be very draining - unless this is the dynamic that you know as well.
Regressing along with a woman is much easier -I don't need to say much about this, although don't be like my college roommate. Keep some shred of your masculinity intact! One day she may wake up from her "trance" and think "What a wuss!" Being tender and sweet at times is enough - but only when she goes first and when she's earned it!
5) More on Non-Verbal regression
• Feeding her (your hands to her mouth)
• Letting her suck on things (your fingers, candy, etc.)
• Protective touch: (your arm around her in a crowd.)
• Playful touch: (light "roughhousing"...)
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