Do you ever wish that you had a CROWBAR to break down a chicks resistance and open up her responsiveness?
The "crowbar method" does just this...
Here's an example: Let's say you are talking to someone that you want to do "X".
You say, "Think of a number from 1 to 10 and if I can tell you what it is, then you have to do "X", OK?"
Now if she says OK... then you're IN! You've taken her from a categorical NO to a MAYBE...
Then they think of the number and you follow up saying some random number (if you do Mentalism even better...)
This technique is PERFECT for that "token anti-slut" resistance!
Blake Richard's Deep Rapport Builder
This theme is a rapport builder as well as an opportunity for anchoring for those of you that do this. In addition, it really shows that you get it, when it comes to "relationships", when a woman brings it up.
I've had to come up with a good response on the fly when women have asked me what I'm looking for in a "relationship". I normally don't like to bring up the "R" word, but when a gal brings it up, you have to have a good reply... one that will show them that you are intelligent, that you have it together, that you are sophisticated, and that there is more to you than meets the eye.
Now the context of using this is that I have only used it with gals in a casual environment, (a bookstore, coffee shops, restaurant). This is for when you are alone, having one of those one on one, deep rapport conversations, as a prelude to (a few steps before) the full close.
"I have a new theory about all relationships and what makes up the ideal one.
First of all you need Passion. This is where you have a physical chemistry with this person, where you feel drawn to this person that you're with, you may even feel a warm feeling right here in your stomach and maybe it spreads all over your body when your with this person... where you can lose track of time and give yourself completely to this experience...
Next you need Intimacy. This is where you feel an emotional connection with this person, like you've known them before, and like you were always meant to know this person... like this was meant to be and where you feel completely comfortable and close. and you may feel it right here in your heart.
Then you need Commitment. Philosophers have called this a sense of "duty"... where you feel secure, knowing that this is someone that is here for you, that we both choose to be together... and this is someone that you can see yourself with now and in the future.
Now, all relationships are based on varying degrees of each one of these elements.
For example if you have just passion, but no intimacy or commitment, then that would be like just physical infatuation. Like a one night stand or something... nothing more, nothing less...
If you have just intimacy, but no passion or commitment, then that would be just friendship. And we all have those.
If you have just commitment, but no passion or intimacy, then that would be an empty relationship. Like a lot of married people out there. so sad.
Then you can have passion and intimacy, but no commitment. This is like a "Romantic affair"... and maybe the knowledge that it is something that's now or never... or that you have no guarantees about, makes the passion and intimacy even more intense...
And you can have passion and commitment, but no intimacy. That is like people who stay together because they really like the sex.
And you can have intimacy and commitment but no passion. That would be like grandma and grandpa who are together for companionship, but cant remember the last time they did it.
And of course the ideal, as with all things... is about balance, where you can have just the right amount of passion, just the right amount of intimacy, and just the right amount of commitment... well... now that I think about it, an extra little bit more passion would be nice... what do you think?"
One of the BEST WAYS to make a woman feel comfortable and to BUILD RAPPORT
Telling stories is one of the best ways to Build Comfort and Rapport in the Mid Game. It gets a chick ENGAGED and when everyone's attention is on you, it says all the RIGHT THINGS!
Here are a couple of tips about the way that I tell stories.
Get to the point where you can improvise your stories based on themes... NEVER memorize stories "word for word"... and be sure to throw in little details that the person that you're talking to can identify with - details in your story that have some similar characteristics with the situation or the gal you're talking to.
One thing that I do is to link the woman I'm with to a character in my story. And that character is in a similar situation and of course the character does exactly what you what the girl to do. - also keep in mind that you can use this same tactic as a tease if the story is about a "dorky" girl that she "reminds" you of.
For example, here's one that I use... If there is a girl that you are with that is kind of sexually inhibited you may say,
"You know, you kind of remind me of this girl that I know... Actually you look a lot like her... My friend Jen, and I remember she was telling me about how she was with this guy once, and she was totally turned on... they're like over at her place on her couch, alone, late at night... the mood was perfect... candles were on, they had the wine out... and they're here totally making out, and getting all into it... but you know what she told me was that she had been kind of shy when it came to sex... (I'm Pacing her here) but she totally wanted it. But you know, it kind of took her awhile, and it was just like a reflex to keep pushing her boyfriend away... (more pacing) I guess it was just like a pattern that she got into, and she really just kept doing it out if reflex, not even really thinking about it.
So anyway, at the end of the night, her boyfriend had been pushed away so much that he just stops everything... no kissing, no touching, nothing... and he gets up and says kind of in a matter of fact tone, "I'm going home... goodnight" And he starts walking toward the door.
And then Jen tells me she didn't know what got into her... (leading now) she just jumps up and starts ripping his clothes off, her clothes off, pulls him to her bedroom and she said that it was just an incredible night... they totally went at it... she said it was like everything that she had always really wanted to do, she did... totally uninhibited. She said it was just awesome... so now, what do you think?"
And ending this with a question, I get to calibrate her even more, and of course she's "identified" with the character in my story (Jen).
So she gets to "be" Jen for the duration of my story... and so that when that moment comes for us where we're the ones making out on the couch, she'll have already gone through both the resistance and then giving up the resistance in her mind through "Jen".
I've also use stories about a "friend" that a gal reminds me of, to do things like bring out bisexual qualities, bring out the "naughty side", open up a gal to the "friends plus" frame, getting gals to role play (being a ho/stripper), getting gals to experiment and more...
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