The will to survive is not the strongest instinct in humans. The strongest instinct is to do what is familiar - Virginia Satir
People may be attracted to what is different but they feel comfortable with what is familiar. The key to seduction is finding the balance between both.
When talking with a woman, focus on commonalities. Find more and more things that you have in common so that you start to stack these similarities. You can always return to these if the conversation stalls.
Once you have enough commonalities in place, you can begin to shift the perspective from "You and I" to "Us and Them". It is now about you and her both together looking out into the world. This is a great way to accelerate comfort and rapport in the Mid-Game.
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