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Getting Laid or Validation Which is More Important

You know, its a funny little world we live in. As someone who studies pick-up and seduction, I like to think back from time to time as to how I got into it and why. If you've read the first post I ever put up on the site, you'll see how I got into it, but that's not the same thing as why. Initially, the why could be explained very simply I wanted to get liad. Period. End of story. But the further I got into my studies, the more people I met, and the more gurus I've hung out with, the more I've begun to realize that this isn't really about getting laid at all. That's not to say getting laid isn't a part of it. But in all honesty, most of the guys I've met who make seduction their whole life have moved beyond that point -- where it's not just enough to get laid, but it has to be by a certain type of girl, who is a certain type of good looking, and others have to know about their success and look up to them because of it. In short, for many people out there, it ceases to be about getting...

The alpha male and the alpha attitude

In some animal groups the Alpha male is the male having superior physical and intellectual skills and taking for himself the right to take sexually all the females of the group. The Alpha male is the source of life for the group. In fact he is the one with the best skills in supplying food and fighting dangerous enemies. The Beta male is the weaker male, who is forced to wait until the Alpha male dies, gets sick or is too old to be able to get his share of females. The beta male is also dependent from the Alpha male for survival. In the animal world, the Alpha male's traits are especially connected with physical strength and ability. So this is a much more important Alpha quality because by his impudence, the Alpha male puts himself in the position of leader and later due to his leadership and intelligence qualities he succeeds in his task. Only the qualities of Leadership and intelligence are not enough for taking command of the group. Read this phrase about the Alpha attitude. Put...

The Taboos of Seduction

So the next stop of the night was down in Santa Monica, which had a kicking night scene. In fact, I'd even go so far as to say that Main Street in Santa Monica is slowly taking over Sunset's role as the best place to club hop. Not only were there lots and lots of pretty young girls there, but the bars clubs were very cool, close together, and cover free (always a plus). The only drawback is that everything shuts down at a ridiculous time of 1 45 am. In a way this can be good, because it might make it easier to pull from the bars, but it means you also have to get there earlier, which sucks. But my experiences there with Roadking and Alleycat helped open my eyes to a few things and got me thinking about specifics of Pick-Up and Seduction. The only thing I can think of is the social mores that have been thrust upon us. That there have been rules, restrictions, and limits placed on our behavior. In short, we have created a system of social pressures that continually keeps us repressed,...

One Secret to having Seduction Confidence

I did something awhile back that changed my GAME dramatically and started giving me consistent results. It basically helped to BUILD up my Seduction Confidence . Notice that all of these questions presuppose your success with women. When you ask yourself questions like these, and really allow yourself to go inside and find all the answers to these questions notice how your focus shifts notice how you begin to see and feel all the things that work for you and say that as your state shifts, you will begin to notice that your focus has changed and now your brain is proving all the things that you have asked yourself to be true

Unfair Seductions In An Unfair World

Many people who read the rough draft of this book were upset by parts of it. Invariably, I'd hear the same complaint. These tactics you're teaching probably work really well. We thought the parts on power and confidence and on meeting women were great. But some of the actual seduction techniques are down right dishonest and unfair. They really don't give the woman any choice. Why don't you just leave them out of the book Then no one could possibly have any objections. Ok. Let's get the unfair charge out of the way. Yes, some, and I mean SOME of the seduction tactics in this book could easily be classified as unfair. And, truth to tell, I had some serious moral reservations about putting them in the book. However, unfair and fair are relative terms. If you and I are in a boxing match, and we are both fighting by the rules, then it is totally unfair for me to kick you in the nuts and poke you in the eyes. You are fighting by the rules, and so should I. Something else to consider When it...

The phases of a seduction

As we have said Seduction can be divided into phases. Once you have become an expert in seduction, you will also be able to perform variations on the theme, like a virtuoso. The phases of seduction are Anyway if you meet her in the course of several meetings you will often be in the situation that you have to start her seduction again from the beginning. Women's emotions follow the law of here and now and in most of the cases they do not have logical and temporal continuity. With a woman you cannot count too much on the attraction she had for you last time you met each other, because her emotions can be totally different the next time you meet her. In most cases you will need to start the seduction game any single time from the beginning. So this is about having her into bed between 1 - 3 encounters or ending the interaction. A seduction is a one way street. When you go into it you can get a lay. If you don't get a lay fast in the beginning of the interaction, you get a friend - or an...

Fidelity and seduction a new context Dont let women transform you into a beta

Of course, in general, in order to become completely independent of a man, she must repress her sexual instinct and her need for affection and warmth, and not many human beings can do this without the help of substitutes such as drugs, alcohol or becoming work-addicted. If you are a bad, tough guy or a successful man in science or industry field at the beginning of the seduction but she - by preparing your meal, making you feel guilty, by manipulating you, etc. - succeeds in transforming you in a schoolboy as time goes by, don't be surprised if her sexual interest for you goes below zero and she starts moving towards the jailbird who lives downstairs or the rock star from the concert you went to together. You get a much better outcome by signing on with the Marines and having fun around with easy going women than by marrying a very feminine woman if you are not yet an Alpha male. A man can never relax completely in a relationship with an adult woman with a strong sexual instinct. He...

Womans language and seduction

Of course, seduction is not only connected with genetics and the instinct to procreate. Seduction has much to do with psychology as well. Also a branch of psychology called NLP (Neurolinguistic programming) helps us to understand what happens in the field of seduction. NLP is a very broad psychological science one of its branches is the study of non-verbal communication and another branch is the study of mental frames. For example, the subservient mental frame is a concept of NLP. If you are having difficulties in seducing women almost probably this is because you talk to women using masculine language and women do not understand it. b. Logic does not have such a great importance for a woman than for a man. The woman can, of course, use logic do to things but the bridge to communicating with her in seduction is through her emotions. To become an expert seducer you need to learn to put logic aside and enter a new world where emotions - no matter how illogical - have a predominant...

Genetics seductions best friend

Our very strong sexual need assures the proliferation and the expansion of the human race by using a reward that is very difficult to refuse pleasure. The reproductive instinct influences in a completely different way the behavior of men and women, both in the phase of seduction and later in long-term relationships. Man's and woman's bodies prepare themselves in the phase of seduction for the procreation of a new human being to whom they transfer the genes of beauty, intelligence, height, nobility and so on. Practically speaking woman's behavior is still influenced by those primordial instincts from hundreds and millions of years ago. I will demonstrate this in this book. Knowledge of these instincts and how to use them with the positive intent of seducing women is an essential point if you want to become an artist in the field of seduction. Slowly I will have you noticing the fine particulars , thereby helping you to get laid as much as you want. Reading this book you will slowly...

The Top 10 PickUp Artists

Okay, so the debate has been raging for a while now over who is the best PUA (Pick-Up Artist) out there. Obviously, a lot of egos are involved in this statement, and everyone has their own opinions about who the best really is. In fact, its so subjective, that I don't really think there will ever be a clear and honest answer on the subject. Its like asking who the best warrior or soldier is in a war. But the fact of the matter remains, no one can ever ALWAYS be the best. They're always going to have their off days -- be a little bit slow, a little bit late, a little bit unprepared or caught off guard. But that doesn't stop some people from categorizing the people in our little community as The Best. So I've decided to throw my hat in the ring and rate the top 10 PUAs operating out there. Thundercat's Top 10 Pick-Up Artist 1. Style Style is definitely, hands down, bar none, the best operating in the game today. This guy is probably the most evil, sneaky, manipulative bastard I have...

The nice guy syndrome

In the case of the modern woman, the chances are that she will soon go to bed with another man who has very strong Alpha qualities. Maybe she will remain in the relationship for the sake of convenience and go on fucking Alpha males for the pleasure of it or she will go to bed with another man with Alpha qualities and leave you. Now, have a look at these so called nice guys who are on the streets of this postmodern society of ours. They are used to getting bedside coffee from their mom. They are used to having their women choosing for them the best colognes and clothes from department stores. To become an expert seducer put this in your head the more you buy a woman flowers, the more you try to please her, the more you are sweet to her, the more you kill her sexual instinct, no matter if are you trying to seduce her as a playboy, as a single man or whether are you married to her. For this reason if you want to be a seducer remember this if you want to...

The Nice Guy Blues Explained

Ust friends Again Aaaarrghhh That's the most hated of all things to hear from any woman that you'd like to bang. When you finally get up the balls to show how you really feel about her she just wants to be your buddy. This seems to be the bane of many intelligent, but passive, men. In their eagerness to demonstrate how well they can connect with women and understand them, they end up solving the mystery that forms the basis of the dynamic sexual tension between men and women. As a result, The never-ending saga of the scorned nice guy is a pattern of perceived injustice that begins in high school and trails these losers all around everywhere they go. You yourself might even be in a situation where you've befriended one of these great looking girls (who refuse to see you as a man), and you actually spend your vacant hours sympathetically listening to her piss and moan about all the various low life dickbrains she gets involved with. Typically she ignores your good advice to forget about...

The Driving Force behind Seduction

Seduction - What is Sexual Tension Sexual Tension I realized that there were several things that I was doing to create Sexual Tension in women. First I focused on building the Sexual Anticipation. These 2 things together The PULL of the Sexual Anticipation and the PUSH of the Sexual Dissatisfaction are what make up the Sexual Tension that DRIVES the Seduction.

And Getting Laid With The Women Of Your Dreams

Once, one of my super-scoring buddies invited me to go to a party with him. Not having much of a social life anyway, I accepted the invitation, and besides, this guy REALLY knew how to get laid. I sort of looked at myself as being one of those small sucker fish that attach themselves underneath a shark's mouth and live off the bits the shark spits out.

Seducing Women

LoodSport Are you telling me that trying to meet and seduce women really all that dire Isn't the grand game of wooing women supposed to be a light-hearted adventure taken on with playful humor and an air of restless good spirit Look, if you can suffer all the various kicks to the teeth that this maddening game of approaching and seducing women often creates -- and just let it all slide off your back like water from a duck -- then you might as well stop reading right now. This book isn't for you. You can probably make some headway with women here and there, now and again. Without Embarrassment is for the guy who is stopped dead in his tracks by the thought of having his advances rejected who stands helpless at the moment of opportunity when a beautiful, available girl is nearby with his feet rooted to the floor in anxiety his mouth paralyzed to utter a single word or his body produce a stray movement that might be judged ridiculous or somehow diminishing -- whose mind has gone...

Real World Seduction

In the last few years several books have been written, audio courses made, and seminars given for increasing a man's success with women. Some of these books and audio courses have some great ideas, however, a lot of what they say is coming from the wrong frame (guys, we will talk about what frames are and their significance later on). This book is different in that you will not only have more success with women, you will learn how to be the PRIZE and make beautiful women chase you. Now being the PRIZE and making beautiful women chase you is deeper than just getting laid more (if your goal is just to get laid more, go to Tai Land and fuck a dozen hookers). However, if you have a desire to not only sleep with hot women, but also to master the skills for making beautiful women see you as a PRIZE they want to chase, then read on. 2003 Inc., Real World Seduction and Swinggcat are trademarks used by Inc., all rights reserved. It is impermissible...

Social proof

Social proof means that, the more a woman gets to know that you have other women and go to bed with them, the more exciting and interesting she will find you. It requires some ability to use Social proof. Society has put in the head of every woman certain codes marriage, fidelity, guilty feelings. She is forced to face her social level, which denies the instinctual one, even more than for men, because women have been repressed much more than men concerning sexuality. Techniques for using social proof as means of seduction - Women of your past contrary to what men not expert in seduction and who don't know the terrific seduction power of social proof do, tell her about women of your past when you try to seduce her. To help bypass the socially conditioned part of her personality tell her by chance and in an indirect way of that very beautiful Maria, who was your girlfriend a year ago, who was so intelligent and sexy - Women, who are right now around you men not expert in seduction think...

Pick Up Artist

Pick-up artist Speed Seductionist I would like to give this wonderful art a name we can all enjoy and appreciate. I don't personally care to have the word Speed in it as its not all that 'romantic'. Any ideas Seducer is pretty good. Also, SS calls scripting patterns. Some say, Im going to make a 'play' on a girl - a football connotation. I've been calling it a HIT. If it didn't pan out, I call that a NOGO. Did it go no. Womanizer is appealing but in this day of equality, I do not wish to connect sexist with pick-up artistry. They aren't really connected but people will think that. What are the definitions to you guys A player to me is someone who fucks a new girl every day - Im not a player by that standard definition. I picture them as outwardly SEXUAL and very fast. They seek women who enjoy that game and know the rules. Like in Swingers A seducer chases innocent women like in Dangerous Liaisons A womanizer does it for the money (I could be wrong about my definitions, Im just...

Nice Guys on Parade

Here's 4 examples of what I mean by the type of nice guys that women will keep as a friend, but show absolutely no sexual interest in The Geisha Boy. Acts servile or submissive by always apologizing for his actions, especially those that might suggest he harbors any sexual desires or motives. One of the worst things that you can do around women is to act apologetic for your desires as a man. This completely emasculates you in the eyes of any woman. Women expect men who are interested in them (sexually) to show it in some way. Geisha Boy may as well be wearing a sign on his ass that says Kick Me . The Turning Worm. After doing so much terrific stuff for a woman while absolutely insisting that he wants nothing in return for his all his wonderful generosity, he suddenly gets all pissed off (usually by becoming pouty) when she finally gives him what he claims he wants and comes to take all his good deeds for granted and shows him no appreciation whatsoever. That's because Mr. Nice Guy is...

Gods Demi Gods Mortals

There is a related issue here for me to address and it is about the need for constant self-improvement. Now we are getting into the realm of the Demi-Gods. What Recoil and Larkin had going for them before the Bad Boy workshop was a lot of conflicting knowledge and a myriad of systems to fathom out, some of them complimentary to each other and some less so. I have met these two guys in the field and realised that they had a lot of ASF theory in their heads but they were not putting it into action. All the theory in the world is great but not useful a jot in moving you forward in the real world unless you put it into practice. They couldn't see the forest for the trees everywhere. Following the workshop Recoil even said that some of the ASF taken for granted wisdom might be erroneous. I don't want to get into things that specific in this post though. Let's stay with the wider picture here and leave those other issues for other posts and posters to discuss. That's something Bad Boy...

How to communicate with a woman in a way that will BLOW her MIND

Do you want to BLOW a woman's mind with the way that you communicate with her I don't care HOW good looking you are, if you can't communicate with her - then it'll be over, or she'll just tell you to shut up and get down to business if you're good looking enough and if she's horny Good looks may be how a woman decides to talk to you, but how you communicate with her is how you'll get LAID Early on as I was learning about various seduction systems I had a friend who I'd go hang out with and I'd watch him approach women and watch their responses.

Attraction Not Necessary

To me, attraction is an intense need for validation. If a girl really needs your validation, she's attracted to you because she will do a number of things to get that validation. And that intense need for validation is created through the use of sexual tension, where you can invalidate the girl as a sexual object and make her strive to get that back. Neo-Rio said it best when he stated If you treat a woman with respect, she feels cheap because she feels pressure to do something to advance the relationship. If you treat her like an inanimate object in your reality, she feels special because you're making all the effort and she doesn't have to do squat.

My Thoughts on the NYT Article

First off, the title is HORRIBLE Just flat out lame. I know that journalists usually don't have control over the headlines, so my guess is that this was some lame attempt by the editors at the NYTs to burry the article and hope no one reads it. If they actually WANTED people to read the damn thing, they could have easily entiled it ''Secret Society Teaches Seduction'' or some other sexy title like that. My guess is the rocket scientists they got running things at the NYTs didn't take the article seriously, and might even be a bit embarassed they're printing it. Second, Mystery does NOT come off looking very good, in my opinion. And this probably touches on what pisses me off about the article the most, which is that the wole community comes off as looking lame. There's no mistaking the rather ''Politically Correct'' female slant on the whole article. Where guys who do this are all virgins or losers who need people to teach them how to talk to girls, and the gurus who teach them are...

Dating ReEnhanced gets a Facelift

Anyway, the Dating ReEnhanced website is looking really good, so check it out when you get a chance. I talked to Harmless recently and it seems like he's filled his first workshop, so I'm looking forward to seeing how that goes. Sarging in Austin is a blast Lots of hot girls down there in that little southern college town.

Out of the Closet and Into the Fire

Well, I was going to address this issue after the NYT article hit this weekend, but it seems like Minger has beat me to the punch. For those of you who don't know, Minger is the head of the DC Lair. Unlike some of the other lairs out there, he's fostered a pretty tight-knit group and their e-mail list always has some of the best discussions going. He also writes a regular newsletter, which he sends to his subscribers. Usually the newsletters just contain links to interesting discussions going on in the mASF boards, but this time around Minger has actually included a rather eloquent and (dare I say it) journalistic article concerning the future of the seduction community. It's a pretty good read, and I have reposted it here for all of you. What happens to the seduction underground when it ''reaches the outer shell of mainstream consciousness '' *Off-Track Betting Dept.* I predict several months from now, after the publication of the NYT article, supposedly this Sunday, that 1) the...

My Dinner With The One

Okay, so one of the perks of living in Los Angeles is that I get to hang out with some of the best of the best of the best that the seduction community has to offer. Los Angeles seems to be the Mecca for Pick-Up Artists, probably because of the constant influx of fresh-off-the-bus poon, mixed with the hippest night scene in the U.S. (shut up New York), and a healthy dose of celebrity elitism, and you got yourself a virtual PUA playground. As far as Game goes, TheOne is far from the best there is, but he's a pretty solid dude who does get laid (though looking like Sylvester Stallone from Cobra doesn't hurt, I'm sure). So I like the guy enough to agree to have dinner with him when he calls me up a few days ago. The thought struck me how funny it is that at the end of the day, we're all just a bunch of regular guys. On the internet, it's so easy to attain celebrity or guru status just as long as you post prolifically and are able to spell above a kindergarten level. In fact, there are a...

The Social Circle of Life

How to Create the Best Possible Environment for Getting Laid An Essay by Tundercat The thing is, what I do is cold approaches. Cold Approaches are basically approaches where you approach a woman you do not know in the hopes of attracting her so you can lay her. Without a doubt, this is probably the hardest form of Pick-Up there is. Why Well, for one thing, the Fear Factor on cold approaches is the highest. They don't know you, you don't know them, and the risk of getting rejected is high. This is one of the reasons many people cannot do cold approaches. It is just much too scary. As strange as it sounds, it is true. Though the average Pick-Up Artist (PUA) is not looking to make friends with the girls he approaches, odds are if they like you enough to fuck you, you will become friends. And even if they don't want to fuck you, the least they are willing to become is a friend because they enjoy your company enough. Most people get laid from their social circles. But of all the guys I...

The slut guilt neutralizing defense

The term is used by other women and by beta men, who feel a sense of envy and hatred for this woman who has the courage to do something very, very natural and healthy to make love with all men she feels attracted to and to enjoy the maximum satisfaction of her sexual desires. Notice that I have just applied the technique of reframing the context in a new frame, by saying for this woman who has the courage to do something very, very natural and healthy to make love with all men she feels attracted to and to enjoy the maximum satisfaction of her sexual desires , I put here the concept of slut in a new, very positive frame. Society has made the women feel guilty for their sexual instinct for centuries. The reasons have always been the same for women, envy and fear of loosing their own men and for men, the fear of the sexual instinct of the woman and fear of being labeled as unsuitable for reproduction. By seducing women and learning to observe their behavior, you will notice that the...

Fast rate PNP technique

This seduction system is fabulous for lowering women's defense levels and seducing them. The Fast Rate PNP Technique works because it causes in the woman a rapid change of mental state lowering her defense level so that seducing her becomes easier. In this technique there is also the implicit message I am a man who has chances with women. I can allow myself to judge them, to make them qualify themselves to me. And this is a sign that you are an Alpha male. The woman's genetic system interprets it as He judges and qualifies me he is for sure one who knows his job, one who has chances with women. This plays absolutely to your advantage with women She feels attraction towards a man who takes the freedom to qualify her and gives himself a higher value than hers.

The phase of physical contact

- Without the physical approach you will not bring her to bed - simple but true. So there is no seduction without the physical approach. The physical approach has to be done as soon as possible. In the course of the attraction and even more in the seduction phase you can start to touch the woman you want seduce, lightly on her forearm, while being cocky and funny or lightly touch her fingers. If she accepts it, that is a good sign and you can go on. If she gives negative feedback by withdrawing, for example, or verbally, you lean back and stop the approach for a while, without being pushy. Remember the basic rules of the Alpha male And they came. We did not even go through the other steps of seduction. Demonstrate your sexual interest for her in a direct and natural way, without asking - not even once - forgiveness for the fact you want her sexually. This attitude will bring the best results for you. This book is about seduction and we don't teach here how to make love well. Anyway it...

The subservient frame and the PNP mechanism

Nature has predisposed the man to fall into woman's PNP mechanism giving him a strong instinct of protection toward the woman along with a formidable sexual instinct. This frame is one of the major reasons for failure in your attempts to seduce a woman and the basis for a major loss of sexual interest on the part of the woman in a marriage or a long-term relationship. A. The woman slowly looses her sexual interest for that man. The subservient state is like a green light, telling the woman that she has reached her evolutionary purpose the man is now hers and she owns him. But there is a big problem in this it is also like a signal telling her He is not a real man anymore. Ironic the same mechanism for making her sure to possess a man with the best genes, a companion and a father for her children has her loosing her sexual interest for her man. Many men sense at that point something strange and start to do stupid things like drinking alcohol or gambling or staying out of the home all...

An Interview with Swinggcat Part II

Seduction Theory For Women

His development, his theories on seduction and attraction, and what he's planning for the future. Swinggcat How that happened is, um, during the time that I was using the handwriting analysis, I did have some pretty amazing success using this hypnotic seduction. And I did start to do things that I couldn't do before. I think a lot of us kind-of get into this stuff not just because we want to get laid more, but we want a sense of control over certain social interactions with women, and as I started using the SS, even though it wasn't the most effective stuff in the world, it started giving me control over these interactions. Instead of haphazardly, kind-of helter-skelter going about it, I was kind-of able to direct where it was going. away from SS, where you got into kind-of your own model of seduction, really. Swinggcat So this is an interesting thing, um during. oh, let's see. in terms of timeframe I think this was 2001, that's when I first started hanging out with Ross. And I also...

Cocky Funny and Good Looking Guys

For those of you who might not know, cocky funny is the primary theory behind David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating material. His theory is that by projecting a cocky attitude while being funny, you can up your success with attracting women. I know Mystery likes to say he disagrees with this in a slight way, because he thinks it should be more cocky playful than cocky funny. However, I tend to disagree with both. I believe that ALL COCKY can be much more powerful. Why is that Well, to me, being cocky does so many things initially that will help you in your seduction. The first thing is that cockiness is a way of prizing yourself. You put other people in a position where they are inferior to you when you are being cocky, which naturally leads to them qualifying themselves. Cockiness also sets a powerful frame, which is always the most important thing in a sarge. When you control the frame, its your reality that the girl is sucked into, and she becomes beholdant to it. Thirdly, you are...

Deconstructing Swinggcat

PRIZING women is important because when you do things to make women chase you they will begin to An Open Loop is an unfinished thought or story. So, within the context of ATTRACTING women, some examples of open loops are I am a guy who has been doing this stuff since I was a teenager. And in the last four years I have gotten really serious about mastering the psychological mechanisms that trigger attraction in women. I am not some guy who used to be good with women who now only talks and writes about how to attract women from behind a computer screen. Instead, I am regularly out interacting with women, which allows me to experiment, hone, and further develop my attracting women skills. What I teach is not just bunch of feel-good theory, but applicable stuff that can be used in the real world. My material really is the Mu-Tai kickboxing of dating guides. I really believe that this is the most cutting edge stuff out there. So, if you are ready to start the new year with a new take on...

Swinggcats new student Tyler Durden

Nice post. how to get girls to chase you is explained in greater depth in the realworldseduction ebook by swinggcat. it kicks ass and i recommend it to anyone interested in getting a girl to chase you. its right up there with deangelo's shit. I have to agree with dvs on this one. I think tentative interest is very much an important part of a seduction. I used to be in the TD camp with the whole active disinterest thing, but seeing Swinggcat in action and reading his book, I've found using tentative interest is much more effective, because it allows you to take that interest away as a form of Push-Pull.

An Interview with Swinggcat Part III

In November of 2003, Swinggcat surprised the seduction community with the release of his book Real World Seduction. Famous in the Seduction community, respected by some of the best pick-up artists world wide, but relatively unknown to the general populous, Swinggcat quickly joined the ranks of gurus such as David DeAngelo with the amazing debut of his eBook which took a new look at the way Seduction and Attraction can be accomplished. But even with the massive popularity of his book, he's been elusive. Drawing away from posting on mASF, Cliff's List, and even Mystery's Lounge, Swinggcat has become an enigmatic figure in the seduction community, preferring to let his work speak for itself. Now, in this exclusive interview, Swinggcat breaks his silence and talks about his background, his development, his theories on seduction and attraction, and what he's planning for the future. Swinggcat So, this is an interesting story, let me back up a bit. Before I moved back down to LA, I was...

Human relationships are made of exchanges

Instincts force women to feel passion for Alpha males. An Alpha male is a man who takes what he wants. Even if an Alpha male is a gentleman, when we come to the subject of taking what he wants the Alpha male behaves like an Alpha Nowadays it still is like that. Women know it and that's why nice guys are not lucky with women. Women's primitive side reads nice guys like weak guys who will not succeed in the struggle for life. Men who are not expert in the matter of seducing women would not understand the meaning of this story. Most men have been educated from the beginning to be in the subservient frame they believe that to seduce women they have to give all to them, without asking for anything in return. When practicing seduction you will notice that women are extremely sensitive to this argument. One day, coming home, you will find her in bed with the bad guy from next door. Or shall we say the Alpha male next door

My Secret Identity The Dichotomy of a PUA

With how these heroes would cope with their secret identities and who, in fact, they really were. I find it a very similar parallel to where I currently am in my life and my development as a Pick-Up Artist. I know a lot of guys like Papa and Swinggcat are very open with their families about what they do, but I just don't feel comfortable telling my mom that I've devoted a great deal of my life to learning how to get laid by any girl I want, including 3-somes and strippers and any other variety of girl. She'd have a fit. This is the same woman who forbade me to date until I was 16. Can you imagine letting it slip that I've frolicked through Vegas with a group of strippers trying to score some drugs so we could party down in my hotel room Yikes.

FR Back in the Saddle Again A Stuff Afterparty Report

After showering and shaving, I give Mystery a call because I figure a situation like this afterparty where social proof and Higher Value Demonstrations would be the most effective (and no one is better at these two things than Mystery), he would probably be able to pull some exceptionally beautiful women. Not to mention I haven't hung out with the guy for a while, and I wanted to see him again. So Mystery answers So I go to use the bathroom and try to psych myself up for approaching women. It's a little Some may think it's weird to talk to men when you're going out to pick up women, but it's actually a very good way of getting warmed up. Part of picking up women is being social, being fun, having something to say, etc. Simply talking to lots of other people will help get you in the mindset of being social and outgoing. Talking to other guys is good because there's no sexual tension, it's just good conversation and it helps you to loosen up. Not only that, you can meet some really cool...

How to meet women

On other end of the spectrum there are guys who do not yet have the ability to approach a complete female stranger and have her laughing within a few minutes (don't worry if you fall into this second category--I know l used to). The funny thing is that many of the guys who fall into this category are rich, young, and handsome. For some of these guys the idea of approach a complete female stranger is scarier than swimming in tank full of sharks. For others, they are able to approach women, yet always seem to reap a negative response from them. One thing that is obvious is that looks, money, and success do not solely determine how a woman is going to react to a man when he approaches her. I think that the majority of what it comes down to is skilI. This skill is so damn important because women will judge and test how PRIZABLE you are by how you go about meeting them. Thus, knowing how to approach women is a huge part of PRIZABILITY. When l talk about meeting women I am talking about...

Attributes of men who are the PRIZE

When l was younger l was always under the impression that women assessed a man's worth by the value of the things he possessed his looks, his clothes, his car, his house, etc. But then in college l came into contact with a man who had none of these things he was old, ugly, bald, poor, and neither owned a car nor a house. However, hot women were always befriending him, flirting with him, calling him, and sleeping with him. This was not just something he told me. I saw with my own eyes hot women dashing up to him and embracing him with giant bear hugs, Iustfully admiring him, and then begging him to go on a date with them. Often times, he would slowly look them directly in the eyes and calmly utter, No . Then they would try to persuade him why he should go out with them. Once again, he would slowly look into their eyes, cock one eyebrow, and calmly utter, No . This really frustrated women, but was fascinating to watch. At first l did not understand what was going on. I even contemplated...

The important meaning of qualification

There is a general rule in seduction you have to keep in mind the person, who qualifies the others, defines the context of the relationship (frame) independently from the fact of the qualification being positive, negative or neutral. Having a woman to qualify herself to us is one of the most important goals of the seduction. Pickup artist Maybe I am too much of a bad guy for you Woman No, no, I am enough a naughty lady for you In the above example the pickup artist is using the false disqualification to have her qualify herself to him. He succeeds by saying that she is a naughty lady she is qualifying herself to him thus attributing to him a higher value than hers. 1. It is one of the most elaborate tests that a woman uses to confirm whether you are Alpha. I have seen many low-level Alpha males fall into the cove of qualification. In addition, all those men who are in positions of importance and power in the business and their working life and may be high-level Alpha in their social...

The cognitive distortion of the only option

The syndrome of the only option is defeated by seducing and bringing to bed other women who are more beautiful, intelligent and seductive than she is. It follows from here that practicing the art of seduction is of utmost importance. To get out of it, become expert in seduction with the help of my book, go out to the field and seduce at least a dozen women as beautiful and intelligent as she is, and little by little, your mind will see things again as they really are in reality. Perhaps after some years of marriage you find out that she has released her sexual instinct with the barman living downstairs, who told her straight to her face Hi Who do you think you are A movie star Fix me a drink for and then come and give me a blow job

Pushing Pulling the art of sending mixed signals

The third guy approaches her and says, You seem like fun maybe we will hang but only if you have hot girlfriends to introduce me to . In this chapter we are going to discuss exactly how to do this. So, first off, where did l get the words Pushing & Pulling The first time l saw them was while reading Robert Green's excellent book, The Art of Seduction. But when l talk about Pushing & Pulling, I mean something slightly different than him. Isn't it creepy how some people sit around and watch videos of their deceased loved ones For example, I knew this lady who named her golden retriever after the eighties pop star Boy George . But since it was a girl dog, she called it Girl George . Now the dog kept getting knocked up. Maybe it got laid a lot because of its celebrity name, I don't know Anyways, my friend decided it was time to get her dog fixed. This was a bad move. George's hormones Have you ever known someone who had a really hot girl act bitchy to him or not give him the time of day I...

Being a single man and living alone

Don't even dream once of entering a marriage or a long-term relationship if you haven't first brought to bed from 30 to 50 women. I am not joking. After that you can have some idea of women. How to obtain this result Study this book and apply yourself to the art of pickup and seduction at least a couple of times per week. You will notice improvements little by little. You cannot get anything without practice and constancy. In the next books of my upcoming Encyclopedia of Pickup, Seduction and Female Relationships for the modern man I will tell you about the more advanced seduction techniques, about new ways to be a winner in relationships with women, about new insights about love life. With the help of this book you will exit from the so called Circle of Luck and you will learn to seduce women so that getting women will no longer be a matter of luck but the fruits of your ability. - You are no longer at the mercy of the circle of luck but with the knowledge of the art and science of...

The Power of Frames How Do You Tell If A Girl Likes

Some of the best guys I've seen pick-up women Swinggcat, Style, Zan, Craig, Tyler, etc -- they all set the frame where the girl wants them. They set the frame where THEY decide if the girl is good enough. Its a funny little mind game, but one that is incredible to behold. I've discussed the subject of Frames many times with Swinggcat as well. Obviously, Frames is not a new thing in the seduction arena, but the way Swingg lays them out in his book in terms of Frames and MetaFrames is a real eye opener, because it gives you a sense of just how powerful they can be.

Main Key to this Game

In November of 2003, Swinggcat surprised the seduction community with the release of his book Real World Seduction. Famous in the Speed Seduction community, respected by some of the best pick-up artists world wide, but relatively unknown to the general populous, Swinggcat quickly joined the ranks of gurus such as David DeAngelo with the amazing debut of his eBook, Real World Seduction, which took a new look at the way Seduction and Attraction can be accomplished. But even with the massive popularity of his book, he's been elusive. Drawing away from posting on mASF, the Speed Seduction List, Cliff's List, and even Mystery's Lounge, Swinggcat has become an enigmatic figure in the seduction community, preferring to let his work speak for itself. Now, in this exclusive interview, Swinggcat breaks his silence and talks about his background, his development, his theories on seduction and attraction, and what he's planning for the future. Thundercat (Laughter) Only if I can call you Swingg....

The most powerful aphrodisiac on the planet challenge

This principle seems to have an extreme influence on women. A man who is under the influence of his strong sexual excitation can be totally uninterested in how challenging his woman is to others. She was enjoying the extreme emotions which our being together caused to her. She cried before we made love because she was going to cheat on her beta husband with an Alpha male. She cried even before she cheated on him. She cried, laughed and enjoyed the emotions - positive and negative ones - connected with our encounter. That was what she was looking for an Alpha male. In a typical feminine way if I had gone to the table where she was with her girlfriend - instead of taking control of the situation - she would have tried to have me involved in some kind of small talk. The purpose would have been to block me even more in my attempts at seduction in spite of the fact she was dying of the desire to have a real man. I succeeded in seducing her in a short time because in few hours I reacted to...

Feminator breaks the Girl Code

Seduction (acting a certain way to get people to like you) is primarily a FEMALE thing that women do to MEN who have power. I think a lot of guys make the mistake of approaching a woman as though she is the prize to be won over. When you do this, you are effectively giving away any power you have in that interaction, because she has the power to either approve or invalidate you as a potential sex partner. But when you approach a woman really NOT CARING about the outcome, a funny thing happens -- in a very subtle way, you put the woman on the defensive, making her have to PROVE herself to you and get your validation because your attitude is such that you STEAL any power of approval from her.

Ross Jeffries Bans Top Student

Well, the big news today comes from the Speed Seduction world, where it seems Ross's paranoid streak continues. Apparently Ross has Kicked and Banned one of his top students --In10se -- from the SS e-mail list and all SS related events. I talked to In10se on the phone last night, and he sounded pretty down about the whole ordeal. Luckily, I was able to console him due to my own experience with bearing Ross's wrath, as evidenced here. But such is the danger when you start to think for yourself in the cult of Speed Seduction. For those of you who may not know who In10se is, he's one of the stars of the Speed Seduction world. Back in the day when Ross and Mystery were in a pissing contest on Cliff's List, In10se, along with Swinggcat, were the two student's Ross was willing to put up against Mystery to prove who had the better system of seduction. I personally have always enjoyed In10se's posts, I found them very similar to the kind of deep insight Juggler used to post. In10se's stuff...

Swinggcat Interview Part V

In November of 2003, Swinggcat surprised the seduction community with the release of his book Real World Seduction. Famous in the Seduction community, respected by some of the best pick-up artists world wide, but relatively unknown to the general populous, Swinggcat quickly joined the ranks of gurus such as David DeAngelo with the amazing debut of his eBook which took a new look at the way Seduction and Attraction can be accomplished. But even with the massive popularity of his book, he's been elusive. Drawing away from posting on mASF, Cliff's List, and even Mystery's Lounge, Swinggcat has become an enigmatic figure in the seduction community, preferring to let his work speak for itself. Now, in this exclusive interview, Swinggcat breaks his silence and talks about his background, his development, his theories on seduction and attraction, and what he's planning for the future. Swinggcat I think at the end of the day, it comes down to validation. Most guys are picking up girls not for...

Womans emotional states

This point is extremely important when it comes to seduction. Your dash is to learn to direct her emotions and lead them in a romantic and sexual direction or better, in any emotional direction which helps you in your seduction. The best of seductions has in principle two steps 1. Influencing a woman's emotional state using words, descriptions and language, with the purpose of having her feel romantic and engaged in sexual emotions - or better -any emotional state which helps you in your seduction. Here are two examples of conversations between a man and a woman. In the first case the man is not an expert in seduction. In the second case the man has read my book, has done the field practice and really knows how to direct the orchestra. For these reasons many men complain that they do not understand women. To understand a woman to a larger extent, a man should have the leadership abilities of an Alpha male and at the same time the sensibility of a lesbian. In the second example, there...

In an irresistible way

This is the most important level for seduction and this is the level you need to get to know about in order to bring her into your bed. After this the seducer goes on talking with her about feelings and emotions and goes on touching her until she surrenders. He comes across as extremely self-confident (see later the concept of Alpha male) because he does not give her a chance to influence him with her words and he shows dominance. He goes on anyway with his seduction while keeping her social part busy with the conversation. The primitive part of her gets excited in the presence of such a self-confident man and she surrenders. So the technique of seduction consists in the ability to dialogue at the same time with both the social and the primordial levels of the woman. When you get some field experience in seduction, you will soon notice that woman's behavior is completely under the influence of those two instincts. Now a very important subject from the point of view of seduction a less...

The Subtle Art of Manipulation

Simply put, I consider this guy to be the master at manipulation. Better than anyone who's in the community. He is really awe inspiring because of the fact that he is so good at manipulating others, you don't even know he's doing it If I had a fraction of the skill this guy has, I'd be getting laid every night of the week.

The Psychology of Dating Porn Stars

I mean, I'm a decent guy and I want to treat them well, but they don't want that, he said. They want a guy to treat them like shit. Take an unnamed superstar , for example. She lives with a guy who has a list of people that she's allowed to hang out with - almost none of them are guys - and he constantly tells her what a fuckin' whore she is, how useless she is, etc. So here I am trying to be the nice guy, and they don't want any of it.

An Interview with Swinggcat Part IV

In November of 2003, Swinggcat surprised the seduction community with the release of his book Real World Seduction. Famous in the Seduction community, respected by some of the best pick-up artists world wide, but relatively unknown to the general populous, Swinggcat quickly joined the ranks of gurus such as David DeAngelo with the amazing debut of his eBook which took a new look at the way Seduction and Attraction can be accomplished. But even with the massive popularity of his book, he's been elusive. Drawing away from posting on mASF, the Speed Seduction List, Cliff's List, and even Mystery's Lounge, Swinggcat has become an enigmatic figure in the seduction community, preferring to let his work speak for itself. Now, in this exclusive interview, Swinggcat breaks his silence and talks about his background, his development, his theories on seduction and attraction, and what he's planning for the future. Swinggcat And you know, this seduction stuff is great. You're not spending a lot...

It feels to Feel Perfect Keep holding her wrist as shes experiencing this

As powerful as the preceding Speed Seduction Patterns are, occasionally you're going to run into some trouble. This chapter is dedicated to patterns designed to powerfully resolve the special challenges you might sometimes face. Here for example, is a pattern I used to finally nail Melanie, a girl I'd known for some time. Now, the problem with Melanie was NOT that she was sexually excited by the stuff I was doing. It's just that I did the sexual stuff before the connection stuff, so I had to back up, drop the sexual stuff, and create the connection. In the beginning of your Speed Seduction efforts, some girls might catch on to what you are doing. These patterns should be used if that should occur. The first one is really just a confusion pattern, and works by making what you're saying so hard to follow that she gets amnesia for her objection If you'll commit yourself to having fun while you experiment, then there's no limit to how far you can go. If you've bought this book as part of...

Female tests and how to overcome them to seduce a woman

As we said THE subservient FRAME is seduction's enemy number one. something about your personality or qualities, in particular if they are directed to find if whether you are an Alpha male and if whether you behave like an Alpha. Good. Alpha attitude An essential trait in the Alpha male is impudence But don't relax just yet. It is not so easy. She will not give up after the first test. Particularly beautiful women and the ones with a strong sexual instinct can go on coming up with tests practically every day and in every situation. Particularly in situations like the above, a man less experienced in the art of seduction could believe that all that she wants is to go to a movie. He lets her direct him and she would start to make all decisions. After a while he looses his cool, begins to shout, and starts to beat her, giving the ultimate sign of weakness. He should not be surprised if after a year or two he finds her in the bed of an Alpha male. So woman's tests are very numerous,...

Introduction to Frames Meta Frames

Put in other words, this is how he is allowing the underlying meanings of his behaviours and actions to be defined. Unfortunately, the frames he has set both imply and fit inside her meta-frame that she is the PRIZE, that he is trying to win her over, and etc. This meta-frame is unlikely to lead to this guy getting laid.

Initial Fear of the Approach

Someone on the DC list asked a pretty good question about approaching and fear of the approach. They talked about how hard it was to approach women initially in SS. I think this is a pretty valid point, because the first stage in anyone's development as a seducer or pick-up artists is to learn how to approach girls.

The rule of the fast approach

The fear of approaching is one of the basic problems that men who starting to study seduction complain about. It is like the fear of flying. There is only one cure for the fear of flying travel all the time by airplane. It is very important to learn this. A very beautiful woman - even if married - can have on the love markets , a value comparable to Ferrari or Nokia, using only her body. As long as you don't master the art of approaching women and seducing them, your value will be - compared to the value of the beautiful woman you are with - comparable to that of a cheap watch, bought in some tourist trap. I'm not kidding. Our society values feminine beauty so much that without mastering the art of seduction you will be always wondering what happens next when you are walking with your beautiful wife or fianc e. This is an argument I will approach in a much more detailed way when I will publish the upcoming books of my Encyclopedia of Pickup, Seduction and Female Relationships for the...

Rejecting her and telling her why or simply rejecting her forever When it is better to give up and look for something

While seducing women you will often be in a situation in which you need to decide whether the whole thing is worth continuing or not. When practicing seduction, you will find yourself in different exciting and challenging situations, where - for one reason or another - she will not surrender. She did not find the dress she was looking for from a shop. You have the same nose as her last boyfriend, who was an asshole the color of what you wear reminds her of the color of her cat who died last year yes, the female mind works this way The other 10 are man haters, psychologically disturbed women and it is better to let them go after having clearly told them to get lost. A normal woman with a very strong sexual desire can use the lack of respect as a test, but she stops when she realizes that the man is dealing with it in the proper way calling her on it. We will approach in a more extensive way how the presence of other women influences the female psyche in the chapter dedicated to Social...

The Ultimate Secret to Getting Good With Women

The thing is, I've come to discover that when you become too involved in that sort of thing, you tend to stagnate your progress as a seducer and pick-up artist. But why is that If you're constantly getting updated on the latest tricks, tips, and gizmos, how can your game stagnate Simple. The answer is that 90 of seduction stems from who you are, not what you say. I have not always been into inner game. Like many others, I've tended to overlook this aspect of pick-up and seduction (which is odd considering I spent 4 years working on my inner game before I got out into the field hard core). I too wanted the new patterns, new openers, new NEGs, and all the other bells and whistles we use in seduction. But the more I learn and the better I get, the more I start to realize how little this stuff matters, and how important inner game is. But the process of refining your Inner Game can be a long, arduous, and even scary task. When I first started my work on Inner Game back in 1998, I was 300...

Look Out Lay Guide Here Comes the Wife Beating Guide

Now, I'm not for beating women, and nothing disgusts me more than guys who do that shit. I am concerned about how this guy who did nothing but WRITE A BOOK get's jail time, though. That's like locking up a guy for robbery who writes a book about knocking over Fort Knox, or convicting a guy for rape who writes a book about how to seduce women. After all, the guy didn't really beat any women himself (at least, that's not what the charge was). I could see maybe banning the book, but giving the guy jail time That's a bit harsh. It is nice to see the women in the Muslim world getting some help though. With dooshbags like this guy teaching religious fanatacs that it's okay to physically harm them, they need SOME way to send a message. Though I'd rather they dealt with the subject material rather than the author.

The concept of context frame

The second sentence is, on the contrary, extremely positive from the point of view of seduction she will come to tell him something about herself. He hasn't even said when he is available to see her again, some other time , he doesn't put himself in a subservient position he expresses his interest for her but at the same time puts her in the subservient position, from the very beginning. In practice an Alpha male presents himself as a man whose value is superior to hers and to that of other men. This stimulates the interest of the woman because of the primordial mechanisms we told you about. An essential concept you have to remember while seducing women is that you -almost without realizing it - say or do something from the beginning that puts you in a favorable or unfavorable position in her eyes. If you call her ten, twenty times per day, it's as if you are telling her I am an insecure beta and I need you the way a three- year-old child needs its mother. The context of the frame you...

The Real David DeAngelo

Sexual Tension or Chemistry can be sparked, amplified, and dialed up so high that it's almost unreal within just a few minutes sometimes even less. And it can happen with the hottest of the hot girls as long as you're open to it, and you know what to do in order to create it. A key to this equation is total PRESENCE and total COMPOSURE. You must mentally become the gay-marriage child of Obi-Wan and James Bond. Remember how COMPOSED those dudes were at all times Add an understanding of Sexual Tension, and a few ball-busting comments, and you've got all the makin's for a party. That's the way.

Zen and the Art of Opening

Here is an article I wrote a few months back for Cliff's List on approaching women. Its not my best work to date, but it should get you started off in the right direction as far as upping your game to the next level. Obviously, if you can already approach worth a damn, you might very well get nothing from this post, so go back to looking at your An Essay on Approaching Women, by Thundercat When you approach a woman and say Hey baby, lookin' good tonight, you are telegraphing interest in an aggressive manor. By the same token, when you sheepishly approach and say Hello. May I please buy you a drink you are not only telegraphing interest, but also doing so in a very wimpy way. So when you approach a woman with active disinterest, and you use a neutral opinion opener, you are increasing your chances of engaging the woman, and minimized that probability she will reject you.

Look Out Don Juan Here Comes Mystery

For those of you who don't know who Mystery is, he's a Pick-Up artist from Canada who's been around since the early days of ASF. Most of the techniques on have been pioneered by him, and he's developed a LOT of Pick-Up theory as well as utilizing group dynamics in his pick-ups. To my knowledge, he is also the first ever Pick-Up Artist to do live, infield workshops designed to train other men to approach women in bars and clubs. I met Mystery last year at one of his workshops in LA, where his co-instructor Style (the most powerful of the Jedi) broke me of my fear of approaching. I've gotten to know Mystery a little bit since then and consider him to be one of the real deals of the seduction community. Recently, Mystery has teamed up with Tyler Durden and Papa to streamline his seduction training business. With the advent of Project Hollywood (a lifestyle experiment that has Mystery, Style, Papa, and Herbal living in a large house of the Sunset Strip), Mystery is...

To Grandmothers House We Go

I talked to Papa briefly over the holliday and he told me that the Seattle Real Social Dynamics workshop was a success. Apparently, all the instructors got laid, which is always nice to hear (though its nicer to hear the STUDENTS got laid, but I digress ). He invited me to help teach the final Mystery Method Workshop in LA, which should be a huge party, but the dummy's scheduled it for this weekend, and I'm gonna be entertaining the grandparents, so I'm unable to attend. Hopefully, the last MM workshop will go out with a blast. I'm sorry I have to miss this one because I love to see Style work his shit in the field, it really is a learning experience for me when that happens, but alas, it wasn't meant to be. Hopefully, the New Year will be a lot of fun with the launch of Project Hollywood and getting a few new faces in the LA scene (ie Herbal, who seems to have great potential as a PUA). starting up and my seduction study. Who knows Maybe if I get good enough at this I'll teach a...

Kinesthetics aka kino have kino with your female friendsacquaintances

Psychological studies show that casual touching during a friendly conversation causes people to remember the conversation more fondly after the fact. The combination of kino with social proof is dynamite. Touch one girl and the other girls seeing this think its normal or even good to be touchy-feely with you ). Now you can quite naturally move on to touching those other girls and so forth ). social-proof, it becomes a 'proof to them that it's normal for you to touch them in turn otherwise doomed nice guy approach. And in some instances, being the nice guy together with using kino can even be quite effective. Here's why the success of kino depends on whether the girl perceives you and your touch as a threat to her or not. You can be a rough and tough guy (I try to avoid the word jerk as it is not really quite reprsesentative of what the opposite of nice guy actually is) and still have the girl feel you are not a threat to her speficically, thus initiating kino will be easy. A nice guy...

Twenty Six on Phone Game

You go down to fred myer or wal mart (department store) the next week or so, someplace where you can set up near valentines day wares, gifts, candies etc. Approach women near there so the merchandise will remind them of their lonely state. They arent in an LTR they will be in a HURRY to get in one. Regardless of a few rules girls etc, most women know the way to start an LTR off the right way and get a gift or a bubble bath or whatever the fuck by next week is to BANG YOUR COCK OFF ASAP.

Amplify those states and link them to you

You see, the average Speed Seducer will just blindly memorize the words of a seduction pattern, without understanding what he's doing. And, in many cases this will work. He'll still beat out his untrained competition 9 times out of 10. Rules and Attitudes Of Jeffries Speed Seduction 3. The purpose of your communication is not to give her and understanding the purpose is to get you a result Speed Seduction works by manipulating and directing unconscious processes, NOT by getting her conscious agreement. Leave arguing and explaining to your competitors. 4. Speed Seducing is fun If you aren't being directed by a playful attitude, then you aren't doing Speed Seduction. 5. In the spaces below, list some of the states you'd like a very hot woman to experience with you 6. Nice guys usually only get women to experience states of 7. Speed Seduction works by If you can answer YES to the following questions, then you can qualify to be a great Speed Seducer. Obviously you have an interest in...

MLTR Multiple Long Term Relationships

A man's pressing sexual instinct is one of the main reasons why a woman succeeds by means of the PNP mechanism in binding a man to her for long periods. Particularly if you are a man with a strong sexual instinct, you are at risk of being trapped by the woman's PNP mechanism because she will start to withdraw sex in the precise moment she realizes that you open up to her and that you are going from an Alpha to a beta state are going to relax with her and take it easy. To maintain a multiple long term relationships, you must first reach a certain level in the art of seduction. As long as you are not expert in seduction, you will always be, concerning your sexual and affection needs, at the mercy of luck. The circle of luck is a vicious circle to which men not expert in seduction are subject. It means that if a man, who is not expert in seduction, succeeds in getting a woman that happens only because he was lucky in meeting a woman who got interested...

Reframing chick tests chick frames

Suppose that a guy is out on a date with a really hot woman. At some point during the date the woman says to the guy, Would you please not be so touchy with me. And don't think by acting that way that you are going to get any from me tonight . Suppose the guy reacts to her by saying, Oh l am sorry if l stop touching you will you have sex with me tonight Guys, I know this example almost seems unrealistic, but l have actually witnessed my own friends acting this way around girls.

Show a willingness to walk away

One of the primary differences between jerks and nice guys is what they focus on. The jerk is first and foremost focused on how he is being treated and each move he makes is put through the test will this increase or decrease the priority she gives me . If the answer is decrease THE JERK DOESN'T DO IT Nice guys (chronic masturbators) by way of contrast, focus on the characteristics they like in the girl. They ignore or overlook rude behaviour from her. They act to show their appreciation and interest in her rather than to get respect which is why, like Rodney Dangerfield THEY DON'T GET ANY

The ultimate PUA Rick Salomon

Howard tried asking Rick Saloman about how he goes about getting all these girls, and Rick's responces were that of a Natural who doesn't really know how he does it. It seems his MO is to get a friend to introduce him to the girl (social circle social proof), and then he parties with her and tries to bed her within the same night (10 hours) of meeting her, otherwise he says it usually doesn't work out. He seems to do well with the stimulus junkies and party girls, though he has bagged a few of the more conservative celebrities out there. Overall, an interesting look into the frame of a natural. And after the social proofing he got on the Stern show today, chances are it'll be even EASIER for this guy to get laid.

Mystery on Jealousy and Phone Game

So I got her number and then went home with my ex. and did I fuck her of course she loved (or hated) the fact that hot women want me and I have choice. she even knew I had the girls in my pocket. strange but true. After sex, she was in the shower when I called the other girl. its a fucked situation because I am

Friends Into Lovers Pattern

Note This pattern can be used on a woman who has been a long time friend but shown no sexual interest, or on a woman with whom you had a few dates way back when but never got anywhere. It works best in a casual setting like over coffee. Notice how this pattern utilizes a have you ever to set up the use of quotes. It also utilizes anchoring. After general fluff talk proceed as follows

Papa was a Rolling Stone

Let me ask you guys this if you were contacted by a reporter from Rolling Stone Magazine who wanted to interview you for an article on seduction, what would you do I'm not sure what I'd do, because I tend not to trust reporters. But at the same time, its a bit exciting to think that you're important enough to be written about, particuarly in the same publication which launched some of the biggest carreers in the music business. Such is the power of pop-culture, I suppose. Its situations like this that make me think about why I started the blog in the first place. I don't really care to get famous or reknown for it. I'm not interested in being an ASF guru. In all honestly, there are many many guys out there who are better with women and get laid with more regularity than I do. And I know for a fact that you'll be hearing about these guys in the mainstream media fairly soon. So I keep needing to ask myself what I'm going to do when this opportunity is presented to me. I mean, its cool...

Blake Richards Orgasm Technique

First of all, a few words to the conservative ones out there. Sex is NATURAL. It's how we GOT here and the Energy from sexual drives have been redirected and sublimated and have shaped our modern day society. Now of course I'm not openly advocating casual sex Sex in a committed relationship can be a beautiful thing And of course, be responsible and safe There are many ways to get to this - from demonstrating higher value, challenging her, fulfilling her needs, cocky and funny, social proof, eliciting states (my personal favorite) - yet all of these lead to just one thing

Eliciting values the questions

Here's a sample list of questions to use to elicit her values and trance words. NYC, ASF What she wants What she likes What she thinks she needs What she thinks she deserves What she had in the past that she wants to repeat What she had in the past that she wants to avoid What scares her What makes her happy What makes her feel sexy Ask the right questions, don't try to push her towards some specific state (like excitement for example), it might mean nothing to her. ASF Realise that do you value excitement in your life is a useless question compared to what do you value

The One Thing that it would all come down to

Find the things you are good at, develop your interests, excel at what you choose as your interests, and live your life passionately. This is why women are attracted to men who are good at what they do and when a man excels in her presence. It has to do with demonstrating value to her

Dear Lord What Have I Done

So the next couple months we are sort-of seeing each other. But it gets to the point where I can't fucking stand this girl. See, the thing about Ellyn is that she is the quintessential DRAMA QUEEN She needs drama in her life, and if it isn't there, she will create it. Not only that, but the girl was so emotionally fucked up, that she needed guys to get angry with her to get sexually aroused (conditioning, anyone ). However, I was a nice guy who didn't really give a shit about her, so I never fell for her tricks to bait me into anger, though I probably could have had a lot more sex if I had.

A Mental Shift that will get you the Best Results with Women

If you were you were to believe that success with women meant that you had to get laid by every single woman you met then guess what Your result may be hit or miss at best and you'd be focused on failure and that would lead to more failure. What failure really is, is not being able to feel any pleasure no matter how good your results were. Don't set your criteria for success too high.

Becoming the Prize

The first part of this book is going to impart you with some very powerful beliefs, attitudes, and frames for being the sort of man hot women pursue. I know some of you are going to feel tempted to skip over this section and go straight to the sections on PRIZABILITY and PRIZING.

How To Treat Women When A Sarge Goes

Basically, offering challenges comes down to being difficult with a girl the same way a hot girl would be difficult with a guy who's chasing her. Little things like not doing what she wants, teasing her, cracking jokes about her, takeaways, intentional undermining, and not taking her shit go a long way to creating this challenge. You can even get more advanced and create those tension loops Swinggcat talked about in his last newsletter, which are excellent ways of creating challenges.

The Importance of Time Distortion

What these patterns all have in common is, they distort a woman's sense of time, and make it seem like she's already fallen for you, and has, in fact, felt that way for some time already. You see, if someone is resisting you, rather than trying to break through that resistance, the better thing is simply to go after it, or before it. Time distortion is an incredibly powerful weapon in your get laid arsenal, and after you've pulled it off a few times, you'll look back on learning it as having been one of the best things that ever happened to you, realizing that reading this was the start of it. Wasn't it

The Ethics of PUA Who Owns What

Tyler battle on mASF has brought up a big controversy that has been brewing in the more elite circles lately. This is basically the issue of ACCOUNTABILITY, or who is responsible for the creation of material. This wasn't such a big deal when everyone was just a bunch of horny losers looking to get laid who'd freely exchange ideas and theories on the topic. But once money came into the picture, it really changed the landscape of the PUA community. In the beginning, you had Ross and SS. That was pretty much it. Then David D came along, then Mystery with his workshops, then TD, then Swinggcat, now Harmless the list goes on. And because these are all guys who got their feet wet in the community and developed their own stuff based on the feedback and tactics of others, they are looked at very differently than an outsider who publishes a book or audio course on seduction or dating. Indeed, the paranoia has set in pretty deeply, with fingers pointing and accusations...

Mystery Offers Advice

Have ONE wing. and maybe a newbie to give back some. TOPS. Then, en devour to roll with women (allowing the success of previous nights to assist in building social proof in future nights) only. Going out alone is FINE Going out with a wing is FINE. going out with a woman is BETTER but 2 women is MUCH BETTER. going out with 2 guys is SORTA OK but you need to be with females soon after entering a public gathering. If you are a newbie, dont go out in large numbers you are doing yourself a disservice because the quantity of men you roll with conveys that you are ''scoping for chicks'' - that makes it a LOT harder to get a woman's interest - and a lot harder to learn anything (no personal attention). Also, it is often a case of the blind leading the blind (as was happening at one point in the montreal lair - Im sure they have solved the problem since).


Isn't it creepy how some people sit around and watch videos of their deceased loved ones For example, I knew this lady who named her golden retriever after the eighties pop star Boy George . But since it was a girl dog, she called it GirI George . Now the dog kept getting knocked up. Maybe it got laid a Iot because of its celebrity name, I don't know Anyways, my friend decided it was time to get her dog fixed. This was a bad move. George's hormones

The Principle that hopelessly draws her to you

Have you ever seen a chick that would go for BAD boy jerks one after the other and then get tired of it and gor for a teddy bear NICE GUY, and when she tired of that she'd go for the BAD boy jerks again. We'll she's one that needs CONTRAST. So how does this apply to Seduction Give her the best of BOTH never be predictable this HOT COLD technique can create an underlying TENSION that will keep her HOOKED

Where to find girls

For me, the FIND is probably the toughest part of the game right now. I understand why Mystery does strip clubs, he's looking for the hottest women available. Anyway, my first thought is Wow, he must go to a really sucky school if he can't find any good looking girls there Colleges especially usually have a lot of good looking chicks, and if he's not finding them, he's hanging out in the wrong places. I can remember having the same problem when I was in college, complaining about how there were no hot girls around. The thing is, they're there. You just have to find them. So where do the hot girls go The same place the fun guys go. I didn't start to meet REALLY hot girls in college until I made friends with Frat Boys and musicians. The Frat Boys would invite me to their parties where they had tons of the hottest girls on campus getting drunk and having fun. I became friends with a few local bands and began to meet their groupies (all bands, no matter how shitty, seem to have groupies).

Wing Rules part Deux

***********Stimulus Kills rapport seduction states***** Providing stimulus of any kind will force your wing's girl out of Rapport and Seduction States. Should you circle the bar and see your wing in rapport with a girl, social proof One thing is for sure It's very difficult to find good complete wings who can observe situations, calibrate, know when to step in and when to disappear, know when to social proof you, and also give you advice on how you could have improved something from a third person perspective.

Mental Notes

4) DON'T go flirt with another girl in front of my target for social proof when we're already at the RAPPORT COMFORT PHASE. Just how fucking insecure am I Show some loyalty to her and stop acting like a slut And it's no wonder why the seduction community is such a necessary entity in this world. I really fucking hate the fact that there are probably untold numbers of little boys out there who saw this on TV, and their parents are making them feel guilty for seeing it, saying things like ''You shouldn't have seen that,'' or ''It's a bad, dirty, naughty thing you saw '' Even worse, I feel for the untold number of little girls who are made to feel bad about having boobs. Who know's how many parents called Janet Jackson a slut or accused her of causing society's downfall. It's no wonder we, as Americans, are so fucked up about sexuality with shit like this going down.

Thundercat MIA

I've also unveiled a new look for 2004. I'm now sporting a shaved head, along with a reverse goatee that not only makes me look a little dangerous, but also like I'm 10 years older. I've been inspired by Fashion For Fat Guys to get some new clothes, which I did over the hollidays, so I'm stylin' now. Swinggcat told me I definitely have a sleazy hollywood bad-boy vibe going on, so I guess that's a good thing. )

Victim type

How to seduce her Give her just a part of what she wants, like a touch of Romance - and mystery. Let her imagine the rest. In this type of woman, for seduction purposes, less is more. Her inner world of fantasy is far richer than what you could create with your words. Talk with her about her ideas of the ideal man, the ideal romance, the ideal relationship. Open up this world within her, show a few romantic gestures and then make yourself scarce - yet balancing and at the same time acting out that scarceness with romantic gestures that show you're thinking about her. family where dad was verbally or physically abusive and this has set up her patterns for what she is comfortable with and what she has known all her life. They despise Nice guys and see them as wussies. They confuse meanness with confidence and arrogance with assertiveness. They love to complain to their girlfriends about how badly you mistreat her.

Being a playboy

While waiting for such a woman to show up, be a playboy, work, have fun, eat well, travel and since you are free - thanks to this book and to constant practice of the art of seduction - from the vicious circle of luck you are always able to seduce new women. You hold in your hands the key to being the absolute owner of your life.

Soft signs

If you learn this well you will be able to seduce women very easily. The most important skill you need to learn to seduce women everywhere is You will get laid by observing the non-verbal soft signs of her primitive evolutionary detector and by giving to it the right answers. They had to calm down that dangerous beast know as the Alpha male. Remember if you focus only on feminine qualities when seducing her, you will get lot of positive feedback but you will not get laid. (Unless she has lesbian tendencies.) The skill of being able to read a woman's soft signs, the skills of being able to give her the proper answers at the right moment and in the right proportions are the same as the skill of being able to seduce her and get laid. You can go on with the seduction and lay her. Remember she will not submit without testing you further I tell this because many of you will have, due to societal influence, a tendency to deny a woman's detector's sexual signals, because your teacher and your...

Fuck Challenges

Anyway, I hold fast to my point -- fuck challenges. Now, its true, it may sound like a bitter decry from someone who likes to whine and complain about the difficulty of getting laid. But allow me to clarify. I do not like chellenges when it comes to getting NECESSITIES of life. Challenges getting food, shelter, and water are not fun, nor are they conducive to a healthy lifestyle. Same thing with sex. I look at sex much like other vital functions such as breathing, urinating, and taking a shit. It is a necessary human action. Men need to ejaculate. It is a NECESSITY to do so. Failure to do so can lead to disease and other medical problems. In fact, when men do not ejaculate, the body finds a way to do so on its own, through the use of wet dreams and such. The fact of the matter is that there are so many guys out there NOT getting laid, that to tell them they need more challenge is like taking a hammer to their balls. Its a fucking rediculous statement to make, and one that flies in the...


Now the way you use this is when you have elicited a sexual state, at just the moment where the tension builds, you suddenly change the topic and talk about The weather or some other superficial topic. After awhile, you bring up the sexual topic again and start to build the state and elicit it within them - and they go in even deeper this time - and at just the moment where the sexual tension feels so hot, you break the state and talk about something superficial like what you did that day. And you repeat and repeat. You can also physically fractionate the seduction. This is where you may touch her leg briefly or sit close to her or touch her in some way - then you just suddenly stop and after awhile you touch her again, this time on areas that are more sensitive like her neck face inner thigh inner arm - then you just stop and on and on. Fractionation creates a vacuum for a woman to get sucked into. As the fractionation goes on it gets more and more intimate until she is the one that...

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