My solution: if a girl says no, I stop completely. I mean 0% kino.
I get up and make a tea. It really throws them that you have such control. They get punished (lack of attention) whenever they throw you a no so they learn quick if they like what is happening they had better not throw in the no again.
her: no not so fast.
me: oh I didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable. (get up) her: where you going.
me: you made me feel dirty now. Ill be back (go make a tea) her: (alone) ... What the fuck just happened?
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