Mystery Method Negs

A NEG is a qualifier. The girl is FAILING to meet your high expectations. Its not an insult, just a judgment call on your part. The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using negs. a 10 can get 3 negs up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a longer time. You CAN go overboard if they think you are BETTER than them. you can drop the self-esteem right from under them (just like most 10s do to guys) and this isn't good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line Once you have gotten her RIGHT THERE, you can startappreciating things about her (NEVER LOOKS). There is a mutual RESPECT now. Something most guys never get from the girl.

I believe a burp is an EXCELLENT neg. A neg holds two purposes: 1. to lower the woman's self esteem. 2. to convey lack of interest (which does 1) Burp and don't apologize for it. when she says, "you are a pig", you reply ... "you think that? well, my reputation precedes me!" You are actually NOT hitting on her. You are making her feel subconscious and therefore thinking about how she can change your impression of her.

She will TRY to impress you. But you are so matter of fact that she finds it difficult. Stay playful. If she isn't, be like Rhett Butler: The girl says, "You sir are no GENTLEMAN!!" And he says with a smile "And you ma'am are no LADY :)" So be playful and confident at the same time.

The less you need others, the more they will be attracted to you. Gain social skills. Communicate with people. Learn how to talk.

I neg and otherwise are polite for the rest. when she is TESTING me I neg her, then Im polite again. She quickly realizes she gets more attention from me by being nice to me -and this gives her the opportunity to get her self-esteem back after the little neg put downs. You get a 10 through her EGO issues.

"An HB is there surrounded by friends. She has put on this BITCH act. Is she REALLY a bitch? Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful human beings - beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it. BUT - they need to have a standard with which to uphold when all these NOBODY guys approach her. So her values are very honed and understood. When a man walks up and says, "can I buy you a beer?" she WILL be annoyed by this. While the guy thinks he's doing something nice for her, she gets this ALL the time. She is desensitized to this. You are the 8th guy TODAY! So she is very good at brushing all these guys off. Shit, she HAS to be... she isn't going to sleep with ALL of them! So she may say NO or act annoyed and then the guy thinks she's a bitch and walks off pissed and feeling like a failure. And that seems to work. Sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of control (like in a club where she is PREPARED for the barrage of men - it IS after all something that occurs so often that when it is GONE she MISSES it) she will accept the beer and then flake the guy off. Hey, the guys are stupid enough to buy her one, she might as well take it. When they take a beer from you, the girl is saying to you, "I don't know you and I don't care about you. You are just another one of those typical guys and since I don't respect you, Ill take the beer from you before I snub you."

Since an HB is so GOOD at snuffing your approach (nothing ever personal either - it is a strategy that is built over years of stupid guys approaches EVERY FUCKING DAY, she will do the same to YOU. That is why SNUFFING THEM is important. You cant INSULT them because they are used to all the hurt guys INSULTING them ("ahh you are nothing but a bitch!") so this rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass. How do you SNUFF them withOUT INSULTING them? Well, let's say she has long nails which are most likely fake. Now why do 10s dress so FINE if they don't want the attention? Because they LOVE the feeling of control sometimes. They are in a club with friends and they want to be the leader of the circle (social hierarchy in primates) and so she gets all the attention. The guys come and buy drinks for them and she gets off on knocking the guys down. Its all in a days play. OK, so she is wearing fake nails to look even BETTER! Most guys will say, "wow you are so beautiful!" BORING, typical and in her mind by now (after years of the same shit) TRUE. Imagine a guy comes along and says "nice nails. are they real??" she will have to concede, "no. acrylic." and he says (like he didn't notice it was a put down "oh. (pause) well I guess they still LOOK good." Then he turns his back to her. What does this do to her? Well, he didn't treat her like shit and INSULT her. He complimented her but the result was to target her insecurity. She thinks, "IM HOT IM BEAUTIFUL (especially in that emotional state of control as in the public)... but I didn't win this guy over. IM SO GOOD at this. ILL just fix that little smear on my image that he has of me." then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you give her a neutral topic like the Elvis script. During this her intention is to get you to become like all the other guys so she can feel in control and snuff you and you then give her another NEG like this ... " is that a hair piece? well, its neat... what do you call this hairstyle? The waffle? :)" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting. You are pleasant but disinterested in her beauty. This will intrigue her because she KNOWS guys. And this isn't normal. You must have really high taste, or be used to girls or be married or something. These questions make her CURIOUS. So this keeps happening and is known as FLIRTING. She give you little neg hits and these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by neg hitting her back. After all, you aren't like the others showing interest. But... why? To get control again she says, "will you buy me a drink?" notice how she is trying to get you now! BUT, she only wants to sucker you in enough so she can SNUFF you. That is all she is about - this strategy is all she knows and it's not working for you so she is trying to do damage control on the situation. But at the same time she doesn't quite understand WHY you don't think you are great. After all, her nails ARE fake. You say, " ahhh, that's so funny ... you nose moves when you speak (pointing and being cute) look there it goes again ... its so... quaint ...

hheeeee look " :D She'll say, "ahhh, stoppp!" :) *blush*. Now she is self conscious and having her in this state is where you want her. You have with 3 neg hits successfully created INTEREST (curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her bitch shield.) You were humorous, you had a smile, you dress well, you are confident and everything she would want in a man.

You didn't take her shit. OH, and when she asked you for a beer, you said, " no. I don't buy girls drinks. but you can buy ME one". You are qualifying HER now. If she buys you a beer, this is symbolic of her RESPECT for you. If not you say, "pleasure meeting you" and turn your back to her again. DON'T walk away, just turn your back. You are neg hitting them again just when they thought she was negging YOU. That is teasing each other. That is the first step to flirting. This is all textbook psychology.

A NEG is a qualifier. The girl is FAILING to meet your high expectations. It's not an insult, just a judgment call on your part. The better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using neg hits. A 10 can get 3 neg up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a longer time. You CAN go overboard if they think you are BETTER than them You can drop the self-esteem right from under them (just like most 10s do to guys) and this isn't good. You have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line. Once you have gotten her RIGHT THERE, you can start appreciating things about her (NEVER LOOKS). There is a mutual RESPECT now. Something most guys never get from the girl. This is how you remove a bitch shield. 3 NEGs should do it within 2 or 3 minutes of neutral chat. Once it is down, you can from a place of mutual respect, CLOSE her."

NEG Examples

HIM: "I don't think we should get to know each other."

HIM: "I think you are just too much of a NICE GIRL for me."

If your TARGET says something even minorly rude you say, "You don't get out much do you?"

HIM: "Ooh, check this out watch this. Here, pull my finger. This is good." Your TARGET pulls your finger.

HIM: Makes fart sound (not a REAL fart.) OH MAAANNN! You actually pulled my finger! haaa! No, no jus' kidding, here, really, pull on my finger. No honest this is good. (Fart sound.) Oh MAN! THAT'S TWICE!!! I cant' believe you! My NIECE is 6 and doesn't fall for that anymore! man haaa!"

The PUA may decide to say, "I'm just kidding. Here REALLY. I'll show you some magic. Look at this. My hand is empty right? Ok, really pull my finger. No really, I promise I won't fart again. Serious. I swear to you. Magician's honour! No, swear. I promise I wont." She pulls your finger. (Fart Sound.) "Oh my God you can get talked into ANYTHING!"

HIM: Literally, figuratively, or philosophically? <Pause> I seduce beautiful women. I'm what they call a 'Ladies Man'." HER: "Well it ain't workin' on me."

HIM: (In the voice of Rhett Butler) "Well you ma'am are no lady" or "You don't think I'd actually say that to a woman I was interested in would you?"

If a girl isn't into anything active, use that as an opportunity to NEG them by saying, "Get with the program. I'm into living LIFE. Don't you care about staying fit? Just cause you are thin doesn't mean you are toned you know. You have to consciously PLAN activities. That's it ... I'm your success coach ... and we are going roller-blading (or rock climbing) this week."

After the KISS CLOSE say, "Alright settle down. We are NOT having sex in the whirlpool" or "Looks like we need to work on that a bit."

If your TARGET says, "You are so young", this is an indicator that they are actually interested in you. Don't excuse yourself for being young like AFCs do. Only guys trying to get the girl would do that. Simply reply cynically, "Yeah I noticed ... poor you." Remember to convey your playful teasing attitude. "Take a quiet moment to get over this age thing. I'll wait."

"You only 18? Shit, your just a kid." If she says, "I may be 18 but I'm very mature for my age", you can CLOSE immediately.

"I really don't like ladies under 30, they don't have a clue how to give good head".

If your TARGET interrupts you you say, "Hello, Im talking, geez" or "Excuse me... may I finish my sentence first?" You then say to others in the group, "Is she always like that?"

If you are asking a question to two women and the TARGET answers you say, "I didn't ask you silly."

If you pull out your photos for the PHOTO ROUTINE, first show them to the OBSTACLE. When the TARGET goes to see them say, "Excuse me! Im showing HER the pictures not YOU. Wait your turn."

If a girl kisses you on the cheek and goes to kiss your other cheek, tell her, "Only one ... don't be greedy."

If she says, "Yes, but Im French", you reply, "Are all French girls as greedy as you?" or "I heard the French invented lovemaking <pause> but we Germans perfected it."

"Nice nails, are they real? No?" (like you didn't notice it was a put down), "Oh. (pause) well I guess they still LOOK good."

"That's a nice hairstyle ... it that your real hair?" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting.

"I just noticed, your nose moves when you speak ... haaaa, its so cute. (pointing and being cute) Look there it goes again ... its so ... quaint ... hheeeee looky"

"Ewww, your palms are sweaty ... ewwww!!!!! Where have your hands BEEN! No, don't tell me, I DO NOT want to KNOW!"

"You've got something in your ear."

"I like that dress. I remember seeing you at a club before and you were wearing the same dress. It IS nice though. :) "

"You blink alot."

"My you come on strong. That isn't til later in the relationship."

"Very good. That is a little test I do to see if you have any free thought of you own or just believe everything you hear."

"Wow. You really wrecked a moment! Your past boyfriends must have really hated that about you."

HIM: "Do alot of people ask you if you are a model?"

HIM: "I think they were just being polite."

HIM: "What, like a hand model or something?"

HER: "I seduce beautiful women. I'm what they call a 'Ladies Man'." HIM: "Well it ain't workin' on me." HER: "Well you ma'am are no lady."

HIM take a gum out and offers it to his TARGET. HER: "No thanks. Im drinking beer." HIM: "I know. Take the gum."

"You need to wash that dress already!"

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