By ending the get together before she does, you:
1. Set yourself apart.
2. Continue to maintain control over her and the evening.
4. Suggest that you aren't desperate for action, therefore there must be other girls in you life and she is going to have to work harder to catch you.
3S RULE: 3 second rule
The Science of Attracting a woman takes more than a good line and good dance moves.
Basic Approach find meet attract close
If other people are present, you must get them to like you first before you may show your intentions to the one you want. If one is her brother, he must like you enough to not become an obstacle. If he thinks you're an asshole, win him over first.
1 - find her go to public gatherings
2 - an acceptable situation to introduce yourself woman sitting at bar with 2 friends, both ugly girls
1 girl, 2 guys
3 - other friends they are talking and smiling pay more attention at first to the others, always! show them a neat science toy and show them how it works and tell them where you got it be more into yourself than her check out my scheduler - look at this - it does this. cool
4 - her shield
5 - her interest
6 - her investment
10 - sex include interactive story
RULE: Don't use pick-up lines. Don't use anything obvious to your intentions. Don't buy a girl a beer. Don't buy a girl a flower. In fact, don't think about picking her up; rather think about attracting her.
What attracts a person to another?
The person is interesting. There are 2 types of interesting people: good interesting and bad interesting. If you meet a girl and start giving knock knock jokes, that would seem interesting but in a ... "this guy is fun, but lame" way.
Be entertaining - that is interesting. People want to hang with others because that person feels good around you.
Most people believe that calling a girl the next day is too needy. I don't think so. Never ask them out on a date though. Movies and the like are out. Videos are too soon.
Talmon asks-I thought getting a date was good?
The more pretty the girl, the more she has been hit on. The more likely she is already taken and is only flirting. They can knock you down more quickly because they've had practice. However, the more practice you get at.
In each one, I first intro'd, then entertained with out obviously showing my intentions to seduce. I merely talked.
Stories: My dove was stolen. I killed a dove on stage. Nervous backstage at Kingswood. The question game, the music game, magic effects, etc. ... lost my glasses, anything to convey your personality as a fun guy through telling a story. The story should show you as a sincere, honest, confident, adventurous, entertaining, level-headed guy, and most of all, a great time. Most girls like that kind of person.
never give a complement that you believe has been said to that person before. E.g.: if the girl is obviously beautiful, do not say "You're so beautiful." Instead, say "You have such an expressive personality .. that's a valuable thing in the entertainment industry. There are a million women who are beautiful, Christ, I just came back from Florida, but how many do you think have an outgoing personality like yourself? I'm telling you, that's a very attractive quality and a valuable asset."
a woman will assume you want to have sex - you must confuse them into thinking that you actually don't care about that. That is in fact a difficult thing to do.
Common signs of interest from the girl, applicable mostly in bar-room and club situations. Stephanie Alexander, Maxim (http://maximmag.com):
* She compliments you on virtually anything. Women are used to receiving compliments, not giving them. So if she points out a positive characteristic, you've impressed her.
* She's disagreeing but laughing. Flirtatious sarcasm, as in "Yeah, right, like I believe that!" means she's into you. If she weren't, she'd simply "Uh-huh" you into oblivion.
* She keeps asking you to repeat yourself. She's not allowing the blasting music to come between the two of you. A suggestion of a quieter corner to talk in will be well received.
* She laughs at your lame junior high school-level jokes. She's obviously lust drunk. Or maybe just drunk.
* She touches you anywhere. Touch her back in the equivalent place, and let her up the ante, just in case her touch was an accidental slip of the hand.
* She stays put. If you run to drain the monster and she's still where you left her when you return, you're doing something right. Likewise if she comes back to you after she powders her nose.
* She doesn't flinch. If you reach across her to grab a drink or an ashtray and she doesn't pull back, she's feeling physically comfortable with you. Don't blow it, pal.
* She says, "Hey, where ya goin'?" as you leave the bar. She's angling for an invite. Even if she ultimately says no (she may not feel safe going off with you or may not want to ditch her friends) it's a sign she's game for a future hookup.
PRACTICE: document my pick-ups - borrow Rick's tape recorder
NAME:"may I call you sally? you can call me Mr. poo-pee pants." - great is the girl is a 10!
"If I follow you home, will you keep me?" "so how do you like me so far?"
"the voices in my head told me to come talk to you."
"hello Suzy, your mommy couldn't make it this afternoon. she asked me to pick you up and take you home. my that's a pretty dress. would you like some candy?"
"you have an interesting figure." - good if the babe is a 10!
"shh! people can see us!"
"you drank too much last night didn't you?"
waiting for the subway - "don't fall onto the tracks - you'll make me late for work Know your goal: Realistic expectations.
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