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How to Flirt With Women

This is more than an ebook that just teaches you how to flirt; this is a work that will change your life by giving your the confidence to talk to women any time you want to, without feeling ANY fear or nervousness. You will learn in this book how to flirt with women in ways that most people would never think of; you will never need to worry about coming off as fake or trying too hard. You will learn ways of flirting that you never knew were real things! Do you feel anxiety or fear when you try to talk to a beautiful woman? This book will teach you to see talking to woman is an EASY thing! You don't have to worry about it any more. You never need to worry about feeling anxiety when flirting anymore; you will learn the tricks of master flirts and confident people. Start today! Read more here...

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What Not To Do When Flirting

Just like with everything, there are some things you should definitely NOT do when flirting with a woman. 1. Don't depend on others to make things happen - This is a big mistake that so many guys fall into. I call it the laziness factor. It's where they look for others to do the work of meeting and flirting with women for them. The thing is, if you yourself do not take action, guess what Nothing will happen for you You can't rely on your buddies to find women for you. By the same token, you can't wait around for women to approach and start flirting with you. You're a man Take the bull by the horns and make things happen for yourself. 4. Don't dwell on your performance - If you screw up, or think you screw up, or somehow embarrassed yourself, do not make a big deal about it. You did it, it happened, learn from it and move on. Don't sit there and criticize yourself for being stupid or ugly because it's counter productive. No matter how great the girl you were flirting with was, there...

The Art of Flirting Whats Your Body Saying

When it comes to flirting what isn't said can often be much more important than what is. Before eyelash-batting Romeos and Juliets even open their mouths, body language has already sent a stream of signals to that certain someone across the bar. This nonverbal communication relays everything from let's meet up later to back off, loser What he's documenting is the unspoken discourse that takes place between all flirters. Things like a tilted head, pouted lips or a simple smile can all signal a potential mate to come hither. These signals are so important because, like animals in the wild, humans are very wary of one another. A large part of flirting is about breaking down defenses. Givens explains, I see a process of getting closer and closer. I break it down into a series of stages where people are trying to get physically closer. It starts with a stranger across the table and proceeds to the end of courtship, which is the lovemaking. The process is mainly about showing the other...

The Art Of Flirting

When we combine these aspects of ourselves and manifest them for the purpose of attracting a woman, we're doing what is commonly known as flirting. Like the animals on all those nature shows, flirting is a natural instinct that humans abide by to get an initial attraction with the opposite sex. Flirting is a complex set of unwritten laws and etiquette designed to express interest in someone and get them to express interest back. Many times, we flirt instinctively, without conscious knowledge of what we're really doing. The only time we really realize we're flirting is when it's not working, or something goes wrong - be it by flirting with the wrong person, or doing so at an inappropriate time and place. You're not alone in this. Men in particular have a hard time interpreting the subtle cues that women give off. Often times, we can mistake a woman's friendliness as being flirtatious, and a woman's flirting as her being just friendly (or you might not notice her flirting at all ). Now,...

How To Flirt

Now it's time to get into the nitty gritty of flirting. The first thing to keep in mind when you're flirting with a woman isn't that you're there to show off or impress her. Often, when you hear guys talk about how much money they make, what kind of car they drive, or how powerful they are at work, these guys are mistaking flirting for showing off. The goal of flirting is not to impress a woman. It is to express your interest in her in a subtle and playful way. It is designed, by nature, to be a way for a male and a female to discover whether or not the two are attracted to each other. Walking up to a girl and saying You're hot, want to bone is not flirting. It's being forward. This blunt approach bypasses the build-up of the mating ritual and is libel to turn a girl off. However, the purpose of your flirting is not ultimately to express your interest in a woman. Its purpose is to find out whether or not she's going to return that interest If she does, that's a sign to proceed. If she...

Flirting Guidelines

Here are a few hard and fast rules you can abide by when you want to flirt with a woman. 4. Repeat her name - Personally, I have a terrible memory for names, so I usually like to repeat the person's name a couple times in conversation just to try and remember it. However, this is also a great tactic to use when flirting, because you're making an effort verbally say the woman's name that you're talking to. In a subtle way, hearing someone say your name creates comfort and familiarity with that person. Do this with the woman you're talking to, and she'll feel exactly that 7. Speak with confidence - This is a HUGE deal when flirting. The last thing you want to do is communicate that you're scared or unsure. So know what you're talking about and be certain and secure in your knowledge. Don't be afraid to set the record straight or get into an argument if you know you're right. Women respond to male aggression and confidence quite well, as long as you don't go overboard with it. 8. Whisper...

Always Have Your Antenna

As a review, just remember to stay focused on the process of flirting and kidding around with women, and release yourself from worrying about what the outcome should be. If you come to view the opportunity to flirt as a fun thing to do for it's own sake, instead of choking on the pressure of trying to score with her, you'll at least be able to function. The pressure of trying to score all the time is too much even for guys who are good at it, much less for the unskilled and the low confident. Being able to feel you have no goal in mind but to have a little verbal banter defuses the pressure cooker and re-frames what's happening in your mind so that it isn't so life and death. This allows you to 1) open your mouth and not be afraid to at least say something thus subduing your rejection sensitivity, and 2) assume a relaxed attitude that takes you light-years down the right track towards actually doing the thing that you're not really even trying to do, i.e., seduce her

In Order to Get Something You Have to Pretend You Dont Want It

Essential Flirting If you can place most of your focus on the act of flirting and little on the potential results - then you will find yourself in a position to look at the world in an entirely different light. Everywhere you turn flirtable women will be available for you to play with. I know that your relationship with the fear of rejection is very troublesome for you, but this new kind of attitude is a fantastic way to short-circuit away much of its power. When you flirt with a woman, you're just tickling around the edges of her psyche to determine if she has even the slightest amount of interest in you. If after a moment or two there doesn't seem to be any, then you simply move on no harm, no foul. Try to re-frame your preconceived notions about meeting women. Think of flirting not as some frightening challenge but rather like a farmer planting seeds. Farmer John scatters his seed all around the field in the spring (sounds vaguely perverted, doesn't it ) never knowing how many or...

Your Pre Game Attitude Adjustment

1) When Flirting, think Fun, not Outcome Develop the mindset right now that you are going to flirt for fun's sake and that's all. Do not concern yourself with any preconceived notion of what the definition of success ought to be, let Nature take care of that. You're just playing. It's never Game 7 when it comes to flirting it's always just the preseason. Reject the pressure to score from your mind permanently. 2) Stay Alert for all possible opportunities to meet and flirt with women. This requires that you pull your head up out of your ass and see the world in a whole new way. A way full of promising women who could be yours if you only choose it to be so. Think you can do it

Your Secretly Shamed Affection Needs

Here's the point insofar as being cursed with an unreasonable fear of rejection is concerned. Fundamental emotional needs like the desire for affection can also become shamed by an ill-intentioned or clueless parent. When this happens, it becomes impossible to experience this particular urge without simultaneously feeling deeply ashamed of it It took me years of study and introspection to understand that this is what had happened to me, and to see this psychological anomaly as being the source of my rejection sensitivity problem. I was so hypersensitive to rejection that I became paralyzed to act when an opportunity to meet and flirt with a girl presented itself. I would simply withdraw and clam up. No one could see that I was consumed by silent shame at the merest thought of what I would like to do in that situation i.e., attempt to strike up a conversation with her. Now here's the really important thing to understand about this particular form of toxic shame it wouldn't matter...

The Seven Perfect Attributes in Men that Women Would Love to

A dominant male is calm and in control, right So a passive, got-my-shit-together approach is always better than a frantic, nervous one. Of course, you can't act completely aloof unless you're an famous athlete or celebrity of some kind, in which case your reputation has preceded you and done all the preliminary work of seduction in advance. However, normal guys like us have to walk a fine line between showing complete disinterest in a woman and behaving like a silly lapdog. Advertise your delight in meeting her with crisp eye contact and a gentle smile, but keep your flirting subtle. Act friendly and show that your intrigued by her feminine charm, but communicate most of it non-verbally through the use of open body language and a mischievous gleam in your eye. As your confidence rises with the techniques you'll be learning about throughout this book, I'm sure you won't even have to think about stuff like this consciously for very much longer....

Main Key to this Game

Swinggcat How did I get into this Oh man, where to begin. well, I guess it began when I was in high school. you know, when I was in junior high school, I was a total nerd - REALLY awkward and shy around girls. So, the summer going into 9th grade, my daily routine was waking up, going to the bookstore, reading self-help book after self-help book on confidence and dating. though I wouldn't BUY any of these books, mind you, I'd just sit in the store and read them. too cheap, you know Anyway, along with that, I'd spend my time perusing teeny bopper magazines for trendy styles, and practice picking up girls at the mall. It really became an obsession for me, you know, like a part of my life I felt driven to control. This really transformed me. By the time school started I felt like I was a new man -- definitely not the stud of my high school, you know, but I was getting laid. In fact, by the end of eleventh grade I was voted biggest flirt. so I must have been moving in the right erection.I...

Expanding her Envelope of Sexuality

She has to know that you can have any woman you want. She will work harder to keep you satisfied. When you are out on a date, you are able to talk to anyone with ease. You do NOT hit on women, you do NOT flirt with women, but you DO establish rapport quickly and easily, in a fun context.

The Way Women Want Men to

The problem is that this discovery process involves trial and error and necessitates a painful rejection with every false move. If you have a low tolerance for rejection to begin with, then the need to avoid it becomes more important than perfecting your flirting-seducing-mating skills. You may give up on the process long before your training is complete and can begin to reap the rewards of your efforts. You stop learning, and your stunted development precludes any further success insuring a high probability of continued rejection. Since the rejection pain now overwhelms whatever drive you might have to meet women, you withdraw completely. Withdrawal is the worst thing you can do because as your skills atrophy your attitude follows along with it. Now you're beginning to take on all the characteristics of the low level submissive male, and women will show less and less interest in you. See how this damn thing slowly spirals out of control

David Shades Manual Answers to Frequently Asked Questions

At the night club, we took 3 seats at a quiet dark back area of the night club against the bar. We could look out at the dance floor and the crowded night club, but we also had some privacy and ability to talk. The two ladies were being affectionate with me, and comfortable with each other, but not really affectionate with each other. Bisexual women are by nature submissive. Often they flirt for a long time before one of them finally gets the guts to start something. My girlfriend is no exception. I know that my girlfriend is shy in the initial meeting with a woman, but once the agreement has been verbalized of common sexual intent, she becomes comfortable and sexually expressive and aggressive. I know that D is very comfortable with meeting new people and moving things along to the verbalization part, but then is much less aggressive sexually.

Appendix A Cayman Magic

He had to remember that the only way to do this right was to just make a game of it and not try to imagine any specific outcome, otherwise the pressure would be too great and he would come off like an asshole and make a fool of himself every man's deepest dread. She was probably on vacation like he was and just kicking back, no worries, no expectations. A perfect state to be approached by a friendly, flirtatious guy, right Women love being hit on as long as the guy shows a little class and doesn't come on like a desperate freight train. He figured he should at least give it a shot. If nothing else it would make a fine memory for the two of them to carry home. Their conversation continued for nearly another hour as the twilight faded into the soft tropical evening. It remained upbeat and interesting, not too personal, and not too self-revelatory. David kept them focused in the present with the goal of creating a warm memory of this moment that perhaps they would both be able to keep...

The Female Mating Call Respond Properly and Youre In

I was reading an article in one of those women's magazines like Cosmo or something similar (don't worry, I always keep these psycho-babble rags hidden inside my copy of Hustler) Anyway, it was all about how these really hot looking babes were having so much trouble getting a rise out of American men. This story was written by some super hot model-type chick, and all she did was lament about the fact that anytime she sees some cute guy and tries to lay the heavy flirt on him non-verbally (with long, pouty looks from across the room, that sort of thing) he gives her the aloof treatment and doesn't respond. Are all these guys scared of good looking girls or what Moral of the Story The typical Euro dude understands what his role in the seduction game is, and has been culturally indoctrinated on how to respond to flirtatious women properly. He's a natural. You and I are clueless lunkheads. I know, I know you just want to smack the snooty, jet-setting Miss Model upside her head....

Yourself as a Player

Romantically entangled with new women, while the Poor (guys who couldn't buy a date with a woman) never so much as catch a hint of interest from any chick. Sound familiar Did you ever notice how women always seem to want to flirt with any guy who appears to be hanging out with his girlfriend, or maybe just talking to some other girl in a bar Meanwhile, the schlep who's standing around by himself looking for anyone to talk to may as well have the goddamn Bubonic Plague This was actually one of the most pleasant of surprises of my own personal transformation when I finally got wise to the ways of flirting and seduction, and I'm sure that it will be one of yours too.


Reading palms is the ideal method for the real flirt. No other skill allows you to take attractive members of the opposite sex into a quiet corner at a party, hold their hand for 20 minutes and whisper in their ear. And you can do this while their spouse is standing at the other side of the room looking on.

The Workplace

Occasionally, you can even get help with the office match maker, typically an older, married woman who wants to set up her friends in the office with nice men. If you befriend this lady (and even flirt with her a little), chances are good she'll work to help you out by giving you valuable info about women you like.

Social proof

For example, this is a technique which is very frequently used by women who want to keep husbands and boyfriends under their control. They flirt with other men in front of their partner's eyes and they create scenes of jealousy in order to have the possibility of keeping their beloved under constant control.

The Scam

Gail Sheehy, in her coast-to-coast best-selling book, Passages advocated what Gypsies and other fortune-tellers long have known, that most people fall into a few basic categories, that their lives and life-paths are Health. In touching upon Health, which represents the second letter in the anagram, you flirt with one of several areas where you, as a psychic reader, must exercise extreme caution. You are not a medical doctor, and you should not offer predictions or advice concerning illnesses. It's best to admit it. I'm not a medical doctor.

The bad guy

To talk calmly and slowly is an Alpha quality. Your carriage and your way of expressing yourself must be slightly impudent. If, for example, a waitress smiles at you, you flirt a bit in front of your woman's eyes and you don't care if she gets angry.

100 Flirting Tips

100 Flirting Tips

Flirting is playful in nature, which is practiced by a person in order to express his or her interest in another individual, either romantically or sexually. There are ways to flirt subtlety and there are also ways of flirting that can be obvious at times. You can flirt with the use of your eyes, body language, touch, tone of your voice, or a combination of the mentioned behaviors.

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