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Magicians of olde might rouse a crowd in celebration or provide the King with secret knowledge and physical devices that further technology. They might also gather artists to physically produce masterpieces and give the Warriors new special weapons never thought of before.

• Finally, the LOVER TEMPERAMENT is also RIGHT-BRAINED like the MAGICIAN, creative and artistic, but less action-prone and more NURTURING, fuller of Well-being than Confidence. Lovers or "poets and artists" of olde might paint alone or write stories that inspire the masses. They might comfort the King one-on-one and feed creative ideas to the Magician who carries them out in public.

• It's that simple. Which one are you born into? Because you will find you want to grow toward your opposite in order to psychologically INTEGRATE and be more mature. You find yourself attracted to the opposite temperament in others.

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If you notice my circle diagram however, you might see that there is no Decision-making resource represented yet. If we want to account for all three inner psychological resources, we need to add this to it, but decisions being the "definition of life" and RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR GROWTH more than anything else, they have a special way of being shown.

There was a field of psychology decades ago called "Self Psychology" which saw human growth as being composed of a True Self, a False Self and an Ideal Self. Designed by Heinz Kohut and Otto Kernberg, it never was represented in diagram form. I have done this for you now, for the first time.

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TRUE SELF is your REAL position of function on my map of psychological integration. Remember, that many times we "don't see ourselves as others see us", as poet Robert Burns once said.

FALSE SELF is an imaginary or wished-for state of function that we all have as children and we lose as we mature. Have you heard a child say," Look Daddy, I'm a fireman!" or "Look Mommy, I'm a princess!"

Well, no they aren't. To be those things some day would take a lot of work, growth and discipline. Yet, we imagine and mimic the psychology of things we wish to be someday.

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• If you notice what it's like standing in the plane of the circle and looking out from REAL SELF at FALSE SELF, you might see that FALSE SELF can resemble IDEAL SELF because you are looking through the center.

• Many people never get out of this perception and never grow because of it. I want you to have this new BIRD'S EYE VIEW" so you can see the difference.

• The notion of these types of SELF is founded in one's Decision-making and therefore ,degree of WISDOM, or the tendency to be CONSTRUCTIVE, not DESTRUCTIVE, WIN/WIN, not WIN/LOSE.

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When we put on False Self and pretend • to be what we are not, we usually pretend to be our opposite. A man who proclaims how honest he is is likely a liar, and a woman who proclaims publicly how against sexual perversions she is, is likely to be so in bed.

FALSE SELF is the long, curved arrow to the right in the diagram, and like an electron jumping to a high energy state, it takes tons of energy to put on or to fake. Eventually, the person tires out of being fake or false and falls down exhausted to their original True Self again, only at a lesser energy, and therefore, lower health or maturity. This is why FALSE SELF is dependent on WIN/LOSE behavior. You can't maintain that high-energy state forever by yourself without USING OTHERS.

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