Okay, here are all the highlights of Essential Flirting laid out for you in 'cheat sheet' format:
Get Caught Looking
Snap Your Anchor - Post-fuck Visual
Get a "GO" Signal
Smile and Make Verbal Contact
Exchange Names -- The Handshake Trick
Seek out Common Interests
Get a LifeLine
Mirror her Thinking-Style to Establish Rapport Offer One Sincere Compliment using her Name Touch her at least once Non-offensively Be a "Personal Space" Invader Quit while you're ahead!
And so there you have it. These are the major things to keep in mind when you're trying to meet a woman. I know it can be a lot to remember in a pinch when your heart is pounding and your nervousness makes it difficult to think straight. That's why you need to train ahead of time so that you don't have to depend upon your rickety conscious mind to do the job. Consciousness is vulnerable to interference from fear... you must learn to rely on your subconscious mind instead.
The best way to fix these steps into your subconscious mind is to write them out for yourself in longhand. Print them on a small card that you can keep in your wallet, and get in the habit of reading through them whenever you get a chance. Burn them into your brain at least once a day for a month or so. Twenty-one days of repeated exposure to any sort of new idea permanently fixes it into your deep, reflexive memory.
And finally, the most important step of all... Have Fun! Central to all the difficulty that you've been having is the fact that fear and shame have turned the entire process of meeting women into a deadly serious burden for you. Once you learn to step away from all that toxic shame bullshit and discover how to achieve a more light-hearted approach towards everything, the game of seduction and romance returns to what it was always meant to be... fun!
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