Okay, now that you've executed this "inner game" to perfection (kind of like practicing a golf swing in your mind before actually taking your shot) you're ready to make first contact. Remember, first meaningful contact between men and women is always non-verbal. Guys go wrong by sneaking up to a woman uninvited and blurting out their carefully rehearsed pick-up line straight out of left field. The woman gets scared, jumps back in wide-eyed terror, and flames you with a cold glare. Now you become even more nervous, choke on your next words, fuck up some more, make a total ass of yourself, and end up taking a bath in your toxic shame. Afterwards, you pledge to never ever again try to pick up another woman because they all hate you!
What went wrong? You opened verbally! Never open verbally -- always open non-verbally! Only rock stars and celebrities can open verbally because their fame has preceded them and laid out all the groundwork in advance. A guy like you or me has to coerce a non-verbal signal of interest from a woman_first or we fail to gain the "legal" right to even open our mouths. Think I'm full of it? Ignore this rule at your own peril and see what happens!
This is why dress and clean grooming and smelling freshly showered are so important to your chances for success, it's the very first non-verbal signal of your availability, and a clear announcement that you are a "player" to all the women who encounter you. Forget the scum bum "grunge" look... that's for guys who have balls of brass and aren't afraid to impose themselves into a woman's personal space no matter what they look like. If you had balls of brass you wouldn't be reading this, so your tack must be entirely different. You have to affect a sense of style that shows you have something more on the ball that the grunge-head doesn't. You have to do everything you can to draw a GO signal out of her to support your weak ego. Once your confidence goes up so will your dominant male attitude -- then you can have some fun pushing the envelope of rejection. For now though, go with the style "hook" and save yourself the agony. What you need most are a few notches in the WIN column... concentrate on getting those for now.
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If you want to become a golf player, it is a good idea to watch professional golf players playing the sport. When you watch them, you would become more inspired in getting better with your game. Aside from that, you could also take note how they carry themselves on the field, as well as how they make their swings.