Starting a New Life
Picture a line of time representing your lifetime. Represent your past off to the left, your present in the center, and your future off to the right. Now place whatever was bothering you on the timeline and visualize it as a small dot. With this small dot on your timeline, mentally step back so you can see a larger portion of your entire timeline instead of just the present. Notice how already this puts that minor nuisance into a different perspective Now mentally step back even further to notice all of your past and all of your future at once and recognize just how small and insignificant this dot representing your current problem is. 1. Imagine a line of time representing your life with your past coming from the left and the future going toward the right. 4. Notice how your small event that you used to fear is so small in comparison to your life and notice how small your life timeline is in comparison to the span of the universe.
Now let me tell you a little about an ancient Philosophy called Huna. Now Huna was around for thousands of years in Hawaii and Polynesia. There is wisdom in these 7 Principle that will carry over into all aspects of your life. Now I'm not saying to go out a become a KAHUNA, or to start getting crazy with the RITUALS, but just use these principles as they come up in your life. Your life will be better for it. Remember, it's not ALL about Seduction well, maybe a little bit isn't
Chapter nine points you to your confident future and your new life with unstoppable confidence. It offers advice for how to make confidence your lifelong habit and how to integrate confidence into your daily life and make it is part of who you are, not simply something you do.
Take a moment and think of an area of your life where you may or may not be confident. Ask yourself this question, How do you know that you are proficient at And being completely honest with yourself, notice your answer. If you absolutely know that you are proficient in the area you chose because it was your own thought or feeling or belief system, congratulations You are really confident in that area. If you were not sure about your proficiency in your area or if you had to rely on an external confirmation from your peers, spouse, supervisor, etc., you are not quite yet as confident as you can be. By the end of the book, after doing the exercises, you will be right there. When you have done all the exercises and completed this book, you will have the true confidence that comes from within.
Regardless of your background, experience or current financial situation, you can be successful in magic. Reading this right now will be craftsmen, builders, college students, salesmen and individuals from all manner of different backgrounds. What counts is your personal commitment to learning, and putting into practice everything from all twelve modules. Decide now to change your life for the better with your new Magic will change your life forever, that's guaranteed Magic will change your life forever, that's guaranteed
Another example of a closed question being used in this way is as follows With my finger in your navel I'm being shown a picture of a Valley made up of lots of hills and this is symbolic of your life to date The hills are in various sizes and I believe this is showing me the ups and downs you've had throughout your life - You're a survivor aren't you (Its in their interests to say Yes as its good for their ego pride to do so) To be honest it doesn't surprise me that as yet you are not aware of this property matter (this implies there will be one soon) however I can see this image so clearly that I can very confidently predict that within the next six months period property matters will become an important focus in your life. I'm being told to warn you to consider all the options when this occurs and not rush in like a bull in a China shop You will be careful when this happens won't you 16) Another ploy to make the reading more accurate is to half way through your predictions and...
What is interesting to me in all this is not that different cultures start the New Year at different times, but that they celebrate a new year at all. Yet the fact seems to be that a surprisingly large number of cultures around the world do look to this idea of a New Year and its symbolism of a new beginning for all life.
The belief that everyone sees you in the way you see yourself can be traumatic, especially if you are self critical to the extreme. It's enough to make you want to lock yourself away from the outside world and live as a hermit for the rest of your life, solitary and alone.
The solution is to put your life back into balance spend just an hour a day reading ASF PU-related material spend just three nights or afternoons a week sarging or hanging out with PUAs. Alternate PUA reading with good literature. Make it a HOBBY. And focus a greater share of your efforts on the job achievements success you want in life. If you can make something of yourself, the HBs will come and what you've learned here will prepare you to deal with them.
I happen to be a workaholic, and sometimes to my detriment as I do not know when to slow down. If you are not a workaholic but willing to work hard and in the right direction then you will be successful. I sincerely desire that you become prosperous in all areas of your life. Please keep me informed of your success and the obstacles you overcome both financially and spiritually. It is a genuine honor when I am asked to share my knowledge and experience with others. Thank you for allowing me into your life while I assist you to succeed and achieve your goals.
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Gaining more confidence is a process rather than a single event. For each different area of our lives, we can expand our comfort zones further. Whatever level of confidence you have, you can always have more. The techniques presented in this book will give you the tools for expanding your confidence for the rest of your life.
This is based on what works. I'm on the street, trying this stuff out and learning from my mistakes. The beauty of this book is that you can learn from the mistakes I made in the course of doing whatever it took to get unstoppable confidence and prosper from my knowledge. You can take what works from this book and use it in your life. Discard what you do not. Some techniques you'll like, some you may not, and some you will love. Don't just take my word that these techniques really work. This is not gospel. Do the techniques and prove it to yourself. The techniques discussed in this book are no-nonsense, street-tested, immediately applicable tools for your empowerment. I'll give you specific instructions on how and when to use these tools in your life. These techniques are so effective because they take what has worked, what does work, and what will work and breaks it down into small, learnable strategies that you can use to help yourself. When you...
Let's put it another way - if you have a conversation with someone who just talks about themselves, their accomplishments and so on, you would get bored pretty quickly unless they were someone who you really admired. However, if someone takes an interest in YOU, asking about your life, what you desire, and if there is anything they can do for you, you will naturally find yourself drawn to that person.
Find the things you are good at, develop your interests, excel at what you choose as your interests, and live your life passionately. This is why women are attracted to men who are good at what they do and when a man excels in her presence. It has to do with demonstrating value to her
It is vital for you to remember that as your business grows, you will be stuck with this name for the rest of your life. This name will be on your letter headings, invoices, credit cards, business cards, everywhere You will become this name, so it is a serious decision, not to be taken lightly
I didn't mean to get preachy on you here, but it's something that needs to be said. If, for some reason, Harry Lorayne doesn't quite connect with you, there are many others whose works are readily available. They all work basically the same way and you can experience success with any of them. Do the work. It will pay huge dividends for you, and not just in the ultimate use of cribs It very well could change your life. End of sermon.
Now, this is not new or groundbreaking advice, but you'd be surprized at how simple stuff like dressing nice and writing shit down can help you advance your skills. I don't think guys do this enough. Most of us are lazy, and I know that I've been guilty of this before. But when you really take the time to sit down and write out things like goals, sticking points, ideas, etc., your life really takes a turn for the better because you give it direction and purpose instead of floundering around haphazardly.
Frequently, terms such as 'reputation maker' or 'show stopper' are applied to magic effects in dealer catalogues. Beware In fact, glance through most magic catalogues, and you will quickly see that almost every item has some 'valid' reason why you must purchase it right there and then or your life will not be complete.
Let me say right from the start that there's nothing to worry about. We're here to look at the positive trends in your life, and it's really all about helping you to make the most of what lies ahead. There may be a lot more good news than you realise Of course, there's a mix of light and shade in everyone's life, I mean, that's reality, isn't it But I like to concentrate on the sunshine rather than the rain, do you see what I mean
What are some of the common themes Heartbreak, sadness, disillusionment, joy, giddiness, hope, desperation, ecstacy, passion, rage, jealousy yada, yada. Almost without exception they all describe the great roller coaster of emotions that flow from the relations between men and women, from the loftiest joys of ecstatic love to the blackest lows of depression and anger. See what's happening here These are all powerful emotions in their own way they are each uncomfortable, painful or distracting. Being possessed by these emotions precipitates a disruption in your life. You end up agonizing over silly things, ruminating over the same thoughts obsessively, or simply being so happy or giddy or sexually addicted that you can't focus and concentrate effectively on the other things you need to devote your attentions and energies to.
Do you want to help your life partner learn to become master of their mind and master of their destiny Do you and your life-partner want to be more creative Does you or your friend want to become more intuitive Do you want to become more spiritual Do you want to become more creative Do you want to build your self-image
By changing your language you change your life. - Kent Sayre The Vocabulary Of Confidence If you were to listen to others and yourself, you will notice that those people who are confident use a certain vocabulary and those lacking in confidence use an entirely different vocabulary. Most people speak language unconsciously which means they don't give it a lot of purposeful thought. As such, these habitual language patterns reflect a person's thinking, be it confident thinking or the lack thereof. Not only does language reflect a person's thinking, it also reinforces a person's thinking. When you change your language, you will reinforce new ways of thinking and begin to see a new perspective. As you do this, more options will become available to you while you naturally find yourself more confident. The key here is to integrate the following information into your everyday vocabulary. When this occurs, you'll not only change your thinking, you'll change your life
Specific numbers, specific areas of your life, specific sequences that lead from one to another, all of these things along with some nominalizations or unspecified words, SEEM to be making a specific reference. Naturally there is no real reference at all, but all of the specific details make it seem to be real and specific.
Should is the worst of the 'oods' Should implies that there's some sort of expectations projected onto you and that you lack a choice in how you want to behave. Think of the sentence, I should be doing this right now. Well, you should be doing this according to whom Ask yourself that, according to whom Whose expectations It's all about your own expectations, your own internal frame of reference. After all, you're running your brain, you're leading your own life. You're a unique, divine individual in charge of what you're doing. So, saying should is like keeping yourself hostage by limiting your choices. If you have a preconceived notion that you should do something all the time in a certain circumstance, then you're not going to investigate other options because you're just going to do what you should do . And that's a limiting perspective because whenever you have fewer choices, you're less empowered and have less control over your life. Not good.
Moving on, now that you have learnt your first trick (or added another trick to your collection if you already knew some magic) you should be feeling really good now, because this is an exciting time for you. You have already taken the first step along the road to an amazing new life.
Your unconscious mind will simply answer the questions to which you ask it, so stop asking the wrong questions, start asking the right ones. Ask questions that will propel you to find empowering answers. So, ask yourself, What's it going to take for you to do this How much fun can you have if you accomplish what you want How easily and naturally are you going to use all these skills in your life
Confidently, you will naturally develop the belief in yourself that you have confidence. At this time, you may have really powerful confidence in certain contexts. In the same way, you might experience other areas in your life where you need to still have more confidence. This stage of confidence is more powerful than the behavioral level since you believe you have the confidence as opposed to simply going through the motions of behaving confidently. The third stage of confidence which you will reach after you pass through the other two stages is the identity level of confidence. This level epitomizes unstoppable confidence and means that you not only behave confidently and believe you have confidence, confidence is now a part of who you are. It's integrated into you as a person as part of your identity. This confidence runs through you like your blood travels through your body as your belief in yourself in doing anything you want is unwavering and completely concrete. People may...
In the course of this book, I've introduced you to a lot of new concepts, some you've accepted, and others you've had to think about before they really made sense to you. I'll continue to give you new concepts and ideas, some of which may challenge your old way of thinking. Now I am going to introduce something that you may not believe at first, but as you think about it carefully you'll realize how pervasively this works in your life. Are you ready
Your lucky month is right now (July) (Present Month) and October. You are concluding the fifth cycle of your life and approaching the sixth -a climax in your life. More on that later. Your lucky days are Monday and Friday - lucky number 7 and 19. Lucky stone - the amethyst. This means you will accomplish financial success, but shows some dissatisfaction with the opposite sex. If you get someone in your life that you don't care for, you couldn't get rid of them if you knocked them in the head. But if you really get someone in your life that you really care for, you will lack the ability to really control them. In other words, you lack the ability to apply psychology to the people you are really interested in. There is indecision in your life - you don't know which way to turn. You have always felt you were more deserving - deserving of better things. You have lost many fine opportunities by indecision and lack of confidence Now in 'love you are pretty faithful to anyone that is true...
The initial step to becoming more empowered is to eliminate the belief that 'you have few choices' and replace that belief with 'You have a lot of choices. You always have a freedom to choose. No matter what situation, even in times where there is an apparent lack of choice, there really is a choice.' When you keep this belief as you go through life, you will be enriched as you have a sense of control over your life, which escapes most people.
The natural complement to unstoppable confidence is being goal oriented. Goal orientation and confidence make for a combination that will make all of your dreams come true. Have the long-term vision of what you want your life to become. Set up your long-term goals so that, when fully realized, you will find yourself living your dream lifestyle.
Couple that with the fact that you commonly avert most everyone's gaze because you're withdrawn and hateful as a result of stewing in your shame for so long, and well, you can see what's happening women are picking up powerful stay away signals from you That's right, you've been communicating non-verbally with women all your life and you don't even realize it The only problem is that you've been sending out the completely wrong message. Stay away, I'm a lowly loser, I'm not worthy Inadvertent perhaps, but clear as a bell nonetheless.
Here's a sample list of questions to use to elicit her values and trance words. NYC, ASF What she wants What she likes What she thinks she needs What she thinks she deserves What she had in the past that she wants to repeat What she had in the past that she wants to avoid What scares her What makes her happy What makes her feel sexy Ask the right questions, don't try to push her towards some specific state (like excitement for example), it might mean nothing to her. ASF Realise that do you value excitement in your life is a useless question compared to what do you value In what period of your life where you most popular Have her remember the good times ) The happiest moment of your life Achieving what goals in your life have brought you the most joy
People become addicted to various things at all times. Gambling, drugs, and alcohol are a few of the many destructive addictions people have. People inherently have addictive mechanisms within them. The secret key is to aim our addictions in a positive direction. What would it be like to be addicted to healthy eating, to practicing and enhancing your spirituality, to doing something new and different each day, to chatting with strangers and being friendly, to promoting your business, to figuring out ways to be more productive at your job How would life be different if you were addicted to those things People practice their addictions very faithfully but they typically aim them in the wrong direction. What if you addicted to becoming more organized and efficient in everything you do What if you were addicted to spreading joy and ecstasy in your life and the lives of those people around you How about if you were addicted to becoming more productive
Stop for a moment and take a survey of how much momentum you have in your life. Are you in motion Are you out there making it happen Or are you going a little slower Only you can honestly judge this for yourself. Do you need to crank it up a notch No matter where you are at, you can increase your momentum. The best way to do this is by starting small. As you continue to do small things each and every day, you step closer and closer to your goals. The small things add up and pretty soon you will be leading the life of your dreams. After you're at the top of your mountain, having fulfilled all of your goals, you can look back at what you've done and marvel at how you took all those small actions each and every day and they added up to your massive success.
Pause for a moment and consider everything around you. Everything you have and everything you lack is directly a result of a belief of yours. Similarly, all of your experiences you have completed and those experiences yet to be done are because of your beliefs. Beliefs are pervasive throughout all areas of our life and influence what we do and how we do what we do to an extraordinary degree. The quality of one's life depends upon the quality of the beliefs that one holds. The more useful and empowering beliefs you holds, the more success one will attract into your life.
The second out, when no previous information is available, uses that valuable window envelope. The performer steps into his group of watchers followed by the assistant. He carries a stack of envelopes with cards inside. On the top of the stack is an envelope with most of its face (address) side cut out, opening side down. On top of this is a blank card. The performer asks a person fairly close to the front, Think of some personal date or event in your life something which you are certain is unknown to everybody here. Write it on the card so that you won't keep thinking of important happenings, remember something else, and change your mind. Put it in the envelope (he does so, writing side down, you wet the flap and seal, and toss it carelessly upon the tray) and try hard to keep that occurance on your mind. It will aid me a lot.
Now there is another kind of time, the times in our lives. Important times times of real value and learning and ultimate celebration. I need you to consider such a moment of time in YOUR life a special moment to you, a moment that was life changing - a moment that you need not share with anyone except deep within your self Don't tell any of us what that moment is now just focus on that moment in time Good now Did this happen to be during the day Focus intently now in a relaxed way on that special time in your life a special time in your mind I'm not going to do anything at all It's all up to you of course I'm staying way, way over here I'm not going to touch your watch, I'm not going to do ANYTHING. Close your eyes now, take a deep breath hold it let it out, relax and focus now on that moment It is the POWER of that MOMENT we are going to use An emotional and special MOMENT for you and I believe others as well Focus on how you were feeling Who was around you now during that special...
Congratulations on removing that limiting belief. Since nature abhors a vacuum, we will place an empowering belief in your mind where the limiting belief used to reside. To do this, think about something with respect to your confidence that, when you believe it, your life will improve.
People stop themselves from achieving what they want for various reasons. Being aware of what stops people means we can prevent ourselves from being stopped and thereby live our dreams. What I challenge you to do is systematically go through your life and kick out all the excuse 'crutches' that you may have been relying on. I had a number of excuse 'crutches' that I leaned heavily on in my
The confident mindset says to make as many mistakes as you can as fast as you possibly can. The key here is to correct what you're doing based upon the feedback you listen to at each mistake. By constantly correcting, eventually you will get your outcome. And when you do succeed, you can develop ways to succeed even better. Furthermore, when you succeed integrate your success into your identity as a successful person of unstoppable confidence.
For empowering yourself in your life, a useful belief to hold is this there is a positive intention motivating every behavior and a context in which every behavior has value. No matter how ridiculous or unresourceful someone's behavior apparently is, there is an underlying positive intention to it or else the person would not do it. If ever you find yourself feeling stuck or wronged by another person, remember that the other person's behavior has a positive intention behind it. Too often, people ascribe a negative intention to another's behavior and emphatically exclaim, They're out to get me Go back to being the reverse paranoid. The reverse paranoid believes the universe is perfect and good and will align to work with you to get your goals. If someone does something wrong, always mind read positively. By mind reading positively, I mean that we can imagine a circumstance or a thinking pattern in which doing whatever action they did would make perfect sense. Give them the benefit of...
These effects take more preparation than the original wallet effect that was the inspiration (thank you Kenton ) Together though, they aren't just killer , they're a total slaughter. Like the original - no sleights are needed which makes up for the required preparation. The various phases are meant to be shown in order - you can stop at any phase, though I don't know why you'd want to do that. Warning People will look at you funny after this routine for the rest of your life. (I was going to write an introduction to this, but I couldn't have said it better myself -K.)
You might say to her, I sense that you have moved about a bit in your life. You haven't always lived here. I believe you lived across the country at one period. As far across the country from here as you can get. Arizona no, California. Yes, California. The number 567, which are the first three digits in her social security number, indicates she applied for and received the number in California. The numbers and the states, or areas, they represent are listed on the following page
Conversely, if you could switch to a rich, warm voice, reminding you about all the great things you've done in your life, the things that make you happy and thankful, the goals and dreams that you have, wouldn't that feel just great Wouldn't you want to listen to it a lot, maybe turn it up to just the right volume for you to feel it vibrate in your body Wouldn't you want to have that helping you make your life wonderful
As with all beliefs, and the verbalization of beliefs, limiting beliefs typically take the form of cause-effect and complex equivalence statements. That is, we believe that something is the result or consequence of something else, or that something is evidence of or means something else. The following prompts use these verbal forms as a way to explore and elicit clusters of limiting beliefs relating to the sense of hopelessness, helplessness and worthlessness. Filling in the statements with respect to some situation or area in your life where you feel stuck or at an impasse can help you to uncover important limiting beliefs which can then be addressed by the various Sleight of Mouth patterns that wTe have been exploring in this book.
Trouble is that if you try to get all the important aspects of your life locked down before you're married and have kids, the one inevitable change that you'll end up with is a failed relationship. Why Because experiencing the full range of all the various and diverse stages of seduction and romance cannot be denied. They must all be played out -- and in their proper order. To play this game you have to become a tough man and be willing to welcome the emotional discomfort that occurs when two lovers fight their way through the various trials and heartbreaks of a romantic affair. True comfort does not occur until after you've grown old together and have built up a vast inventory of shared experiences that will bind you together magically for the rest of your days on Earth. And don't even think about figuring out some clever new way to navigate around all the rocks and potholes. Instead, learn how to revel in them and drink 'em up Think of it all as a great competition the greatest -...
Your unconscious mind will simply give you the answers to any question you ask of it. Therefore it behooves you to ask it good questions so it can give you good answers. The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your questions you pose to yourself in your life. Knowing that your unconscious mind is an answer box is useful since you can now use it to your benefit. Ask yourself questions that direct your life in the way you want it to go. How easily and naturally will you find the solution to the problem that you need How quickly and naturally will you be ten times more confident than you are now I wonder just how soon you'll achieve all of your goals and lead your dream life. I don't know yet just how much pleasure and delight you can have in taking the next action on the path to your dreams. How can I make my relationships with my family and friends and co-workers even better Asking yourself those kinds of questions sets your unconscious in motion. It will go out and...
How you perceive people will influence how they perceive you. If you love people and enjoy their company, that belief will impact your life tremendously. On the flip side, if you dislike people and generally disdain their company, that belief will affect you a lot. The better you can get along with people, the higher quality life you will lead.
There are many angles to Handkerchief Work, and in this lesson, I am giving you additional principles and effects. You will find the knowledge contained here invaluable to you throughout the rest of your life in Magic. Some of the methods you may not use for years, then all of a sudden when you are planning something new, one of the principles learned here may suggest just the thing you want. Many times you are called upon to work under such peculiar conditions outside of your regular routined program that emergency methods are regular life-savers. Also if you are giving a number of programs before the same audience, a fresh supply of material is of the utmost value.
Men often complain about a particular beautiful woman, Oh, sure I'd like to go out with her but she's beautiful She is way out of my league. That is utter and complete nonsense. People are people. No one is below or above anyone else. Beautiful women and other people who might intimidate others are simply human beings with beliefs, desires, values, hopes, dreams, fears, and goals like anyone else. When you think about things like this, doesn't it make it that much easier to interact with people As you apply these ideas in your life, I think you'll find out for yourself that it does. If I ever feel intimidated by someone, it's due to the fact that I'm focusing on the wrong thing. All of us have extraordinary gifts and if others solely focused on our gifts, they may become overwhelmed and thus intimidated. We're both human beings and we have much, much more in common than we have different.
If you are not confident yet in a particular area, put it into perspective. People blow things way out of proportion on a regular basis. They literally do this unconsciously in their minds. When people worry over something unnecessarily, it's most likely caused by them blowing things out of proportion in their minds. They have taken something and made it more important than life itself. Another way of stating that is that people turn incidental things into a figurative life or death struggle. Blowing things out of proportion is taxing to people in both time and energy lost. They cannot get back that valuable energy and time and yet for some reason they still blow things out of proportion. It's useless to only think of negative things. Always take caution to prevent disasters in your life yet the key here is action As you begin to put things in perspective and realize the true significance of them in your life, you will find yourself less stressed out about trivial things. Another...
In addition to feeling full of energy, you will find that you will be relaxed and in control all day long. Issues at work or in other areas of your life that bothered you will cease to bother you tomorrow. In place of the stress that had become a part of your life, you will find peaceful and relaxing feelings. Your memory and concentration will improve as you relax peacefully during the day. Day by day, in every way, you are feeling better and better.(PAUSE)
And so we ask 'How can we become more creative with our magic' Is this your question too May I ask you Is this a serious question for you, an important question, a question whose answer you urgently desire, or is this merely a passing question, a question whose answer you would only store in your head for use sometime later The problem with later, of course, is that it exists only in the head and not in reality. I am convinced that some of the questions in life require a sense of urgency if they are to be answered at all. And so, I ask you, do any of these magical questions fill you with. a sense of urgency, a deep desire that you find the answer so that you can get on with your magic and grow, or are these simply interesting but ultimately unimportant questions Questions whose answer wouldn't really make much difference in your life anyway.
In NLP, the term mentor is used to refer to individuals that have helped to shape or influence your life in a positive way by 'resonating' with, releasing, or unveiling something deeply within you. Mentors can include children, teachers, pets, people you've never met but have read about, phenomena in nature (such as the ocean, mountains, etc.), and even parts of yourself.
If you do not completely understand this not as an intellectual idea but as a clear and reverberating belief, then you are not performing satisfying magic. If you do not start looking at how the best magicians engage their audiences instead of how they achieve their effects, you are not moving forward as a magician If you do not realise, to paraphrase Eugene Burger, that a small handful of tricks can suffice for the rest of your life but that it is how you connect them to your audience that is important, then you should. probably, in all fairness, restrict your performances to the amateur level.
There is a piece of the puzzle that has not fallen into place. Your life is an never ending story. You may have to return to the past, in order to complete your future. If you wish to see your future first examine your past. Your life shall go full circle what is to be, shall be.
My simple discovery is to go through your life each day doing your daily routine, trying to make as little noise as possible. That's right. Try to make no noise (or as little as possible) as you walk, pick up articles, cook, drive, etc. Before you throw something at your computer screen and demand your money back, first hear me out. If you constantly try to be less noisy, you will find yourself altering your life in a lot of subtle and different ways. You will look at what you are doing. You will handle items in a slower and more deliberate way. You will think ahead before making actions. You will grip items with a lighter but surer touch. You will be, in overall movement, more deliberate and accurate. There will develop a certain calmness about your style. If you are thinking this is all nonsense, just try it I never read of this concept anywhere nor did anyone tell me about it. I came up with the idea myself just out of common sense. You will see after only a short time that it...
The challenge of course is that the woman who selects you with her flirtatious interest is often someone who is of no interest to you, at least romantically speaking. This is the age old quandary of the game of Love and Romance unrequited love offered by one person, unreturned by the other. I'm sure you've run up against this particular wall several times in your life, most probably beginning in grammar school. Finding that perfect someone is the great quest of our lives, and it is by no means an easy task. Just look at how many people fail at it look at the divorce rates, the broken families, the broken hearts. How many of your friends are just barely hanging on or suffering through with someone they've grown to dislike or even despise People bounce from one relationship to another all their lives trying to find that special someone who they can love and who without reserve will love them back just as powerfully.
And the psychological reason for this is that you are probably not ready to move on to the next level of your life. So unconsciously you are keeping yourself status-quo. And the message is, well, if I am overweight I am probably not as attractive as I normally would be. And if I am not as attractive as I normally would be, perhaps the opposite sex would not take notice of me, and it will give me a chance to resolve what is left unresolved. Statistically, people that are overweight are usually not overweight because they are compulsive eaters, or addictive eaters. It is usually because of some unresolved emotional issue in their life. And it may well indicate that you have gone through some unresolved, unrequited issues, in your life. That is one visualization that you can keep doing. Another visualization is to look in the past at a time in your life when you really felt good about yourself, you really felt good about the way you looked, the way you felt, and how much you weighed, and...
Read through all of these instructions and then do them. Close your eyes and imagine a line of your time representing your past, present, and future off to the left, center, and right respectively. Imagine floating up above your timeline and drifting forward far into your future. Continue floating forward in time until you go to the point right before the end of your life. As you get to that point, see yourself on your mental movie screen lying down on your deathbed. Notice the extreme sadness in your facial expressions and the way you communicate unfulfillment with the way you move your body. In doing this, you might realize that you are looking at a person who has lived a life unfulfilled. Tune into the sounds that are coming from that old person who had so much potential in their lives yet somehow failed to take action and live their dreams. Make the picture that you are watching very big, very bright, and very close. Just as the feeling rises of extreme disappointment as your...
When I was starting out in public speaking, I had no experience at all and since I needed to rapidly gain experience to be credible, I went back into my past and created an entire series of memories. Even though I consciously knew they were false memories, they were so vividly imagined that my unconscious mind knew no difference and consequently allowed me to behave as if I had been speaking a lot. I imagined that I had an entire history of making wonderful speeches, motivating audiences, and receiving standing ovations for my abilities. To go one step further, I imagined people taking my message to heart, acting on it, and transforming their lives. By creating all of these memories, by the time I got up to actually speak for the first time it was delightfully simple and I radiated confidence from the beginning. Anyone can use these techniques to better themselves. It's just a matter of knowing the techniques and applying them to your life.
If it helps, imagine yourself as them in different contexts. When you fully have that unstoppable confidence, see yourself stepping outside of their body and back into yourself. As you float back into your own body, take with you that unstoppably confident feeling you've just created. Integrate that feeling into your body, your mind, and your identity. By having this unstoppable confidence once, that means you can have it any time you want simply by doing this exercise. After you do this exercise a number of times, your unstoppable confidence habit will begin and you will have confidence naturally without having to perform the technique each time.
To maximize your use of your time, survey your life. Find what wastes your time and eliminate it. Find what you thoroughly enjoy and spend more time doing that. No matter what it is, increase your time invested in that activity. If something is unbearable to you, hire it out. Or perhaps trade responsibilities with a friend, partner, or spouse. Do more of what you like and less of what you don't.
After all, who is the only person you are guaranteed to be with for 24 hours every day for the rest of your life You are of course. Treat yourself well and discover how your unconscious mind will respond to you. As you treat your self better and better, you'll discover that you're better able to access parts of your memory that you hadn't before, you are able to visualize better, and that your negative internal dialogue will disappear.
Tip 9 Don't be picky - Agree to meet and hang out with anyone, at least initially. Sometimes it's easy to get an ego and start being selective about who you hang out with, but resist this. Give everyone at least one shot to be your friend, and then decide whether or not you want this person in your life. You never know who might surprise you.
The security force, however, are not androids. They are exprison guards. It is highly recommended not to make eye contact and to obey everything they say. The disrobing lines at the X-ray machines are run by them. They have total authority over your life and have the right to shoot you if they so choose.
For newcomers to card magic, this book is a must-buy. (In fact, if you were to own this book, Duffie's Effortless Card Magic, Steve Beam's two volumes of Semi-Automatic Card Tricks, and Phil Goldstein's Focus, you would have enough simple, effective card magic to last you the rest of your life.) More experienced card workers will find the routines in this book to be a fertile field for experimentation and variation. Highly recommended.
Box and this is the relationship you want in your life right now, then you will find a way to make this work You find yourself questioning whether or not you will get a promotion. Rather then worry, try changing your life for a while and putting extra effort in at work. And, remember to smile. You have much success ahead of you and a lot to achieve. The road of your life extends far into the future you have many exciting moments to come
Let's look at this from a different point of view. Put yourself in the place of the person who created this material. You know that good jokes don't grow on trees they are the result of a real effort put forth by a real person. You know this because you've sweated and slaved over a pad of paper or a keyboard every day of your life for the last ten years to come up with the lines that enable you to put food on your table and pay your rent. Some guy you don't know hears your joke, writes it down, and sells it as if it were his own. Wouldn't you have the right to be a bit steamed Of course you would. Not only have you not been compensated for your effort, but your material now has less value to you because there's a chance that people will have heard your material without having had to pay to see you.
I have often suggested to magicians that the magic tricks they do and the way in which these tricks are presented should be an expression of their lives and not a substitute for them. Adopting this suggestion immediately makes your magic unique. No one else on earth exactly shares your life experiences and your various interests. Incorporating your viewpoints and experiences into your presentations not only allows the spectators a chance to learn about you as a person, it can also provide interesting emotional hooks that allow your magic to be more meaningful.
Friends, astrology is a science of foretelling probable future conditions by the position of the planets, or major stars in our solar system. This form of fortune telling,.if you wish to call it that, was practiced thousands of years before the Birth of Christ, and now in its modern form is highly scientific and accurate. The astrologer is able to read your life, characteristics, talents and aptitudes like the pages of an open book and all he need know is your birthdate and birthplace. Most important about astrology is its ability to analyze people and to find their true vocations and start them on the road to success.
Attraction Secrets - Are you timid Shy Is it hard to speak up This section enables you to break the ice with any stranger, maintain conversations, convey your ideas, and build confidence and intimacy in all encounters. A few powerful formulas of attraction will enhance your life forever.
East is east and west is west, and never the twain shill meet. This book breaks that classic, and brings to western people the secret knowledge of the East. Thus, while the main purpose is to teach you the performance of India's wonderful magic, it provides additional rewards in giving you instructions which will enrich your life in many ways.
Alright, having beat this thing to death in theory, how about some practical advice on what to do about it. The first thing you must recognize is that knowledge is power. Simply having your eyes opened to the mechanics of toxic shame and how it was adversely affecting your life all these years can become a compelling tool for dismantling it. Knowing and understanding that your shame-bound emotions are something that was done to you, and is not really you (i.e. an unchangeable aspect of your personality) is an enormous revelation in itself that holds vast potential for jump starting your personal growth. No longer are you doomed to identify with an emotional characteristic i.e., you aren't shy -- you were programmed with an emotional flaw that caused you to utilize shy behavior in order to correct the problem. You adopted shyness as a shield against your shame, to keep it boxed in where it couldn't torment you. It was a pretty ingenious solution really. The drawback to using one type...
Or you could do this by creating a barrier between you and a woman. If you have chemistry with a woman you might want to hint that there is already a woman in your life, planting the seed in her mind that even though you and her like each other, it probably will not work out between the both of you because you are already taken.
Get in front of a mirror and stand with confident physiology and with a mental intention to project these affirmations to change your life,. The larger the mirror, the better it is so that you can see more of your self. With your shoulders back, head held high, stomach sucked in, look squarely at yourself in the eyes and say, You are completely powerful. You are unstoppably confident. You are becoming more and more confident each and every day. Nothing can stop you. You go for what you want congruently and powerfully. You reach your goals naturally and easily. Repeat these affirmations to yourself in the mirror until you can totally feel it in your body. You might get a different feeling. Perhaps you'll see yourself a bit differently as if you already noticed yourself having more confidence. Or potentially you'll hear your inner voice speaking more forcefully with
Everybody has to learn how to deal with the shadow side of their fellow human beings. I am sure that when you look back on this incident at the end of your life you will see it as a small bump on the road of your life. When you think of each instance of hurt do you relive each one again separately, or do they blend altogether Do you recall them from your own associated perspective, or do you see them all edited together as if you were watching a type of documentary film of your life
First it makes it look more realistic, and second, it stops people from asking you to do it again by pointing to a cloud you can't vanish right away. You can always say this has drained your energy and you can't do it again for at least 24 hours. This gets them on your side. Ever notice how David Blaine plays this for all it's worth in his major stunts He is always on the verge of collapse from all the energy lost. People love Blaine because of this. So make it look like this has drained your life force and that it will take time to recoup. People will believe what you did was for real because of these actions.
If you perform this like a coin switch trick, it will be taken in that light. Presented as a weerd thing you have observed from time to time, this can be very intense and memorable. Spectators often tell their own stories about streetlights or lights at home blinking on or off. Has it ever happened to you Have you had any unusual occurrence at all in your life ever Sure, I thought you did. Either that, or it upset you so much, you decided to forget it. See You can't really be wrong. More often than not, they will tell you all sorts of wild stories about them. That's fine rapport to get from one silly trick. Using this as an introduction into metal bending or other such mentalistic effects helps insure this effect, and vice versa.
You are not the typical bombshell with no education. You are educated and certainly the major issues in your life would be men. And if nine out of ten men do not impress you the one that does would be the challenge. It doesn't matter how many men you've experienced in your life. I still feel you are a one-man woman. I feel you search for your soulmate, you search for your twin flame or lifemate that is out there. Deep within you want to be desired for your personality, character, your soul, your spirit, and it gets very old and tiresome and very boring to continually have men at your fingertips. I know it's pleasant to be pursued, great for your self esteem but as we realize it won't last forever. I think you would have two significant love relationships in your life. The major issues in your life, the major accomplishments, or failures will be contingent on a love relationship where you have to be in love. You are physically capable and emotionally capable of loving a man. Finding a...
It will also make your life easier if the spectator doesn't stop you too far down in the deck. Start riffling rather rapidly and slow down after about a dozen cards have gone by. (I've gone into detail on this for the sake of completeness and to reassure those with limited experience in spectator management. The fact is that getting the spectator to stop you around the middle of the deck is the easiest thing in the world.)
so who might this refer to please what might this link to in your life what period of your life, please, might this relate to so tell me, how might this be significant to you can you see why this might be the impression I'm getting There's quite a clear indication here of music in your life.
Slick and polished (a phoney liar) is a warning flag too. This is a qualifying test that you have to pass right away or you will not be given a chance to work any of your seductive magic. I trust that you've managed to stay out of mental wards for most of your life or at the very least are attentively taking your medication every day, so this shouldn't be too much of a problem for you, right
I'm going to be in San Diego for the weekend of February 20-22, 2004 to do a three-day gig to raise money, to help a friend. I'll be teaching what might be best described as a Marknosis Sampler -- key lessons and techniques from three of our most popular seminars. In this our only West Coast appearance for 2003 2004, I'll be leading the group through a fast-paced sampler of inductions and exercise from our three top-selling recent seminars. Not for the faint of heart, we're going to rip through changes in your beliefs, behaviors, thoughts and sensations until you're basically intact, just massively enhanced with the ability to take control of your life and DRIVE
This woman was in her early thirties and had been struggling with this compulsion for more than fifteen years. Of course, people had tried many times to convince her that this belief system was crazy always to no avail. 1 took the time to get rapport with her, and to find out about her 'criterial equivalences' and reality strategies. Then, at a certain point, I said, You know, all your life you have been trying to get rid of the fleas. You have always tried to wash them off and make them go away. Maybe that's an ineffective way to deal with them. Has anybody ever treated your 'real imaginary' allergy to the 'real imaginary' fleas
Well here's the Great Wonder of being alive lurking inside every rotten situation there exists a seed of infinite possibility. If you can find this seed and nurture it somehow, what all the great philosophies refer to as a catharsis will occur in your life. A monumental change which walls off all possibility of going back to the way that you used to be. This process is accessible to anyone interested in taking up the personal challenge of living Life to its fullest expression. No going to the mountain required. Just simple old Knowledge is all that's necessary. On the surface, it may seem as if humans have civilized the mating dance so much that it bears little resemblance to the actions of lower animals, but you'll see that so very much of what goes on between men and women is spoken only in the language of movements and looks and attitudes. So much so that it's a wonder we even bother to weave words into the process at all But, alas, we do and so you must know how to manage your...
I believe that Plato said know thyself, heal thyself. As a special person you have the ability of overcoming handicaps, overcoming obstacles, because if you stop and think that in your life you have overcome a lot of negativity, you have overcome a lot of obstacles, and it's just a question of overcoming as many obstacles as you can. piece of mind or some harmony in your life, and by so doing, that you will be able to overcome a handicap. One is by Deepac Chopra, and the title of the book is Quantum Healing. The second is by Ber-ney Seigal How to Live Between Office Visits, and the third is by Louise Hay, How to Heal Your Life. Because everyone's handicap is different. I find it interesting I have talked to people over the telephone and really not been aware that they we're handicapped. handicaps in your life, because after all you're a black man and it's been difficult. How did you do this How did you overcome these handicaps He looked him straight in the eye and he said, what...
Practically speaking she will behave with you as though she has the right to feel all the emotions she wants and has the right to discharge them on you, without the slightest worry as to how this will affect you and your life. Many women, though not all, will also behave with you as though they have the right to do anything to you, without the slightest worry as to how this will affect you and your life.
It is vital to remember that positive thinking without action is useless. All the motivation that you will get in this book will not do you any good unless you take action. It's not true motivation until you take action. If you only get hyped up and inspired without taking action to change your life, it's no different from someone who is not motivated at all. It's like the phrase, The person who does not read is no better off than the person who can't. For our purposes, we can think of the phrase as, The person who has knowledge and does not apply it is no better off than the person who is ignorant.
In fact, I cherish my friends. If you're my friend, I will bend over backwards to help you, because in my view, you've earned the right to recieve my help. Being my friend also means you've earned the right to recieve my trust. And being my friend means that no matter what happens, in the end, I'll always be on your side. Its very hard to find good friends in life. The type of friends you'd entrust your life to. One quality about friendship I admire is that true friends never really NEED anything from each other. Its just enough to be together, to enjoy each other's company, to share time with someone without any expectation whatsoever. Our friends help define our lives.
He (after having expressed in a very direct way his sexual interest for her) Don't be silly my, little baby Come here. Give me a kiss. You know you are not the first one to tell me I am a bastard. And the fact is yes, I am a bastard. The worst you ever met in your life (This is said playfully she cannot know now if he is for real or not.)
Swinggcat Reality comes down to sucking people into your story -- this is your life, your story. It comes down to you being the one that defines the underlying meaning of the interaction -meaning, you're the one who decides how they see things. And the 3rd thing is, things are on YOUR terms. When it's your reality, people do things on your terms. And so, let's get back to the first one, which is that this is YOUR story.
The actual routine takes about four minutes to perform and will make somewhat of a reputation for whomever practices and masters this well orchestrated routine. You'll realize that, upon performing, it builds to a terrific finish. It also introduces some very fine and subtle handling of the knives. If you, dear reader, take the time to buy the knives and master this routine, it will be with you for the rest of your life.
Sounds obvious but it's not. Single people tend to have a disturbing strangeness about them that tags them as curiosities to be avoided. I know you've met women that you can tell almost at a glance are lifetime virgins . In a man, single guy weirdness signals that he is a neophyte when it comes to matters sexual and emotional. It suggests that you're a low status male who's been roundly rejected by women all your life Lacking this important natural power robs you of the motivation you need to overcome your fears. Therefore those fears are in complete charge of your life. You know what you must do to change this situation, right Give it a rest for a while and generate some positive horniness to help your cause out Let's face it, your life-defeating fear of rejection really only stems from the fact that deep down inside you've always known that you are a low status male -- and that women are likely to reject you because of it. Who wouldn't be afraid to play a game where...
If you find that your thought process about seducing women tends to work like this -- and you don't like the results that you've been getting from it -- then consider these next seven ideas carefully. They may not all apply to you -- but you'll probably see a reflection of yourself here and there I'm sure. Any insight can be valuable when it comes to delivering you from a worthless mindset to one that's at least got a chance of improving your life. The human consciousness follows the same physical principle as water and electricity it flows along the path of least resistance. There's no need for me to repeat the litany of wild emotions that are unleashed by a love affair. You've been ducking them all your life coasting along the twisted path that winds its way along and around -but never through -- those frightening feelings. I know that it takes a firm commitment to allow yourself to become vulnerable to these emotional storms. The anticipation, the uncertainty, the self-castigation...
Dominant males have characteristics which are easily identifiable to women everywhere they are confident first and foremost, have a likable quality about them, listen well and focus on the woman totally and completely while she's talking. The ability to pay attention to others without fretting or seeming self-conscious demonstrates that you have you shit together. You are not imprisoned by anxieties due to the fact that your life situation is out of control, or that you're desperate for someone to listen to your problems. Other qualities flow from your magnanimous nature integrity, strength of character, genuineness and compassion. All this adds up to a sexy package. Give the guy a 7 or an 8
One of the ways in which guys get totally fouled up with women is by failing to understand that seduction is really a very elaborate sales process, and, rather than concentrate on selling the product, they focus instead on how badly they need to make the sale. Here's an analogy imagine you're wasting a perfectly good Saturday morning gabbing with a car salesman, but instead of filling you in on all the wonderful benefits of owning the shiny new Nissan you happen to be checking out, he's wining on about how much he needs you to buy this car so he can pay his rent and feed his kids. You would expect the guy to be belching out statistics and features and appealing to your emotions by painting a picture of you behind the wheel cruising down an open country road with the convertible top down. He should be trying to get you jazzed up about making a buying decision by unleashing a flood of reasons why your life would be greatly
What I'm doing in my game right now is getting to the point where I do not feel the need to give the girl that power. Where my inner game has hit such a level that I do not have to get validation from a girl. Its a tough thing to do, and something I'm struggling with. But all I have to do is look at someone like Zan, who is completely free of all that bullshit, to the point where he naturally attracts people to him. Its a very powerful and congruent way to live your life.
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