Let's be honest. The man you want to meet, Mr. Right, is not desperate. He is not searching. He is taking care of himself. Don't you agree? If so, please accept that Mr. Right is not looking for you or anybody else. He's busy with his life and his interests.
Do not try to find him any place where men try to meet women. Why not? (1) Most men who hang out in bars or clubs are losers with no life. (2) Women who frequent those places are hardened meat-market pros. Why compete with pros? (3) Even if he is there, his guard is up to protect himself from manipulative, game-playing liars. When his guard is up, you can't tell if he is Mr. Right or Mr. Hyde.
Find him when he's not looking for women. You will catch him, pun intended, with his guard down. Where? Parties at friends or acquaintances; wedding receptions; playing sports you play such as volleyball or softball; taking classes like Swiss Franc Investing, Auto Mechanics or Stock Market Fundamentals; attending a club meeting such as Chamber of Commerce, Rotary, Elks, or Lions.
Besides bars, other places that are packed with losers: how to meet people seminars, pop psychology workshops of any kind, and all gatherings sponsored by singles clubs. ATTRACT HIM
The woman who brazenly exhibits her physical assets will get the attention of every man in the room, initially. However, after a short time, most men lose interest. She has revealed everything. There is no untold story. There is no mystery. There is no reason to start, let alone, continue the chase.
Exceptions are adolescent boys of all ages and men who want an arm-charm or those seeking an attractive physical presence, not a real woman.
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