Reluctance Resistance And Tests

When I got divorced, I was so naive about courtship and dating. The radical changes that had taken place in The Dating Game were shocking. Women were so distrustful, so cynical and so unwilling to take my word for anything. I didn't realize that nowadays women do not trust any man. It took me two years to accept that it was normal for a woman to test me to see if I measured up to her standards. Does this sound familiar Courtship is practiced by all species in which the male is a beggar, that...

Great Stuff

2-HOUR VIDEO Dress For Success and Body Language Seminar Joanna is spectacular Frank Funny Bold Honest We captured everything by taping with two cameras the entire time. Joanna, volunteers from the audience and I demonstrate the key signs of interest and disinterest, both from across the room and when engaged in verbal intercourse. Joanna presents her views on no-no's, hair, teeth and any subject the guys wanted to hear about Joanna ranged from a sex with young woman through toupees, SUVs,...

Signs Of Interest

Women, keep that geek away Get that guy in the red shirt to come over here and talk. Send each man an unspoken but unmistakable message. Men, don't get shot down because you approached a woman who is not interested in you. Pay attention to what she's saying without words. Here are signs of interest sent from across the room. Most are applicable to both sexes, although a few apply only to women. Those are indicated by italics. The sequence of the list approximates the courtship sequence. I'M...

Getting Noticed Part I

This method, dubbed, The Photographer Ploy, is useful for meeting someone you noticed but she hasn't noticed you. I stumbled on this when I volunteered to take informal shots at a friend's wedding. Most people like to have their pictures taken, no matter how much they protest. Have a camera with you at all light-hearted gatherings. Don't be an obvious twit and only take photos of the women. Shoot lots of pictures of everyone. It gives you a chance to meet and talk with even more guests. When...

Meeting Ms Or Mr Right

What to do after the two of you have exchanged mild signs of interest from across the room The next step is to have a one-word conversation. Acknowledge her every time you have the chance. Say Hi, nod and smile on your way to, or from the men's room, bar, kitchen or pool. You're just being friendly. These Hi's are first conversations. You won't be a stranger when you start the second conversation. You want to know, How and when do I do that Right I don't mean to be glib, but it depends on the...

Lines Lies Or The Truth

Everyone fears being rejected or humiliated and hurt. So, a genuine person is slightly nervous when meeting someone who rings his, or her, chimes. Sincere people are always somewhat awkward and childish no matter how hard they try to be cool and relaxed. Even if forty-something, they may blush or stutter because this is real, this is important, this is arousing, and this could get your heart broken. But the experienced manipulator or game player is not afraid because...

What Is Body Language

For those who have difficulty believing in body language, here's one way to look at it. You are on vacation in Moscow. Upon returning to your room, a wild-eyed, pistol wielding man confronts you. He slams the door and snarls something in Russian. As he cocks the gun and points it at your head, would you reach for your English-Russian dictionary To a gun toting mugger who speaks English, most of us would use body language and words to neutralize the threat. Body language Yes Raise your hands....