How to Banish Bad Habits
If someone does something that makes you want to react in an unresourceful manner, let the idea that there is a positive intention motivating every behavior come back to you. Upon doing this, give the other person the benefit of the doubt. Even if someone has a bad habit, there is a positive intention behind it. When you were less confident, there was a positive intention behind that. The positive intention most likely was to protect you from getting rejected because up until now, you did not have the resource strategies that are outlined in this book to have unstoppable confidence and realize there is no such thing as rejection nor failure.
In all endeavors that require a skill of some sort (even something as simple as handwriting). if a bad habit is acquired early in the process, it will eventually rear it's ugly head someday and prevent further progress. At that point, the performer tor student) will be operating with an automatic handicap, one that has been self-imposed either by ignorance or by laziness, This is the reason for all the detail I have gone through prior to this.
Bad Habits To Avoid Like The Plague As you practise Strike dealing you must be very aware of the bad habits that you can fall into. They must be avoided at all costs or your deal will be less than perfect. A second and altogether more subtle bad habit that you may develop, especially with the Side Sweep deal, is that of leaving the top card cocked out of place when dealing continuous seconds. It's almost as though your thumb becomes lazy. Make sure that the top card realigns after each and every card dealt it really is important. Reread the descriptions of the deals to find the other bad habits especially that of not moving your left thumb when dealing a true top. The dead thumb syndrome can kill even a good deal stone dead
So what are the origins of your negative habits What are the root causes of the feelings you experience Chances are it can be traced back to your parents, but be careful not to blame them It's more important to understand your parent's influence on your feelings so that you can stop blaming yourself for your current situation, rather than trying to figure out who to pass judgment on.
You've got to learn how to defeat the bad habit of shifty eyes or you will never be able to light her fire. Shifty eyes convey distrustfulness to many women. It looks like you're being dishonest and trying to hide something. If you can't look into her eyes, simply stare at the bridge of her nose. It's impossible to tell the difference. This is the old shy salesman's trick. Might as well use it if it helps you make a great connection with a foxy chick
In otherwords as you know your friend or family member inside out, their personality, their bad habits, and their likes dislikes etc and they have the SAME STARSIGN as the person now sat in front of you, they should therefore have much in common I've been using this simple technique for years and have found through personal experience that by describing the character traits, personality, likes dislikes and bad habits etc of the person you know well with the same sign as your client you will be 99 correct almost 100 of the time
Who's so certain his view of things is correct that he's constantly telling people that they should do this and should do that. I know I said this already, but it's such a common faux pas I'm saying it again. It might be such a bad habit that you don't even realize you're doing it turning people off every day with amazing efficiency. Take some time to assess how you interact with your friends and family. Try to step outside yourself and objectively observe your behavior for any chronically obnoxious habits such as this. If you find any, put a sock in it.
Once you've calmed down and clarified your thoughts, you can recognize your bad habits and pinpoint the thoughts or beliefs that cause them. Once that happens, you must CHALLENGE those beliefs Write out the three most common thoughts that fire off your negative feelings and then challenge those thoughts Carry the challenges with you on a piece of paper if you must.
Whenever you say I'm better looking than that guy, I can get more girls than him, or That girl is ugly, I could easily get her to sleep with me, you're giving yourself false approval that provides false courage. The effect is temporary and never fixes the deep-rooted problem of your bad habit. Why Because this is a solution at the expense of putting down another person When you do this, you are still relying on other people for your own sense of validation. Whenever you have negative thoughts because of one of these five habits, rewrite them. Find out what your thinking habits are, which one of these bad habits you rely on the most, and re-edit the words for yourself. How you interpret the events around you dictates what you feel.
Discarding Negative Habits
I ought to change, but I've attempted and failed. Does this seem familiar? Frequently, altering habits does seem insurmountable. A lot of us merely don't have enough motivation to alter our habits all of our foul habits in a way that would really affect our life. We hold them tight as we view them as rewards. But your habits determine your life. Discarding Negative Habits Methods That Will Help You Deconstruct The Bad Habits Holding You Back.