When I first sat down in 2004, my goal was simple. I wanted to write an easy, step-by-step manual on how to meet women.
Nothing more, nothing less.
I wanted to do this because I felt like a lot of the books on the internet that dealt with dating and seduction, though they may have had excellent stuff, didn't really address this crucial skill as much as they should.
Meeting women is the first and most important step in any interaction with them. If you aren't able to meet them, then you will never be able to interact with them, date them, or even have sex with them.
Back in the day, I was hopeless with women. Just one look at a beautiful girl with smooth skin, silky hair, and big bright eyes would freeze me in my tracks. And through much trial and error, I was able to go from meeting no women at all, to meeting four to five new ones a day. Now, I find it easy to go out and meet women anywhere I am (something which would have seemed impossible to the old me).
So that's why I originally wrote The Art of Approaching. I wanted to share my experiences with others who have the same problem meeting women I did, and hope that it could help them.
And I succeeded in that. I've gotten emails from guys thanking me because my book helped them to meet their current girlfriend or wife (some guys even email me regularly to tell me about all the women they're sleeping with because I helped teach them how to approach!), and that always makes me feel like I've made a difference.
But along with those success stories, I also got a lot of questions and suggestions. People would write in asking things like "What do I do AFTER I meet the girl?" "How do you keep the conversation going?" "How do I feel more confident with women?" "There's a girl I like, how can I flirt with her?" "How can I make more friends?"
All the same questions started popping up over and over again, and though I'd often address them individually in email, I felt that my readers were telling me something -that they wanted more than I was giving them.
That's when I decided to revise The Art of Approaching.
You'll find a great deal of extra material in the second edition of this book, most notably the chapters on Confidence and Flirting. But every new page in this book stems from experiences I've had in my life and how I dealt with it. Just like the original Art of Approaching, you won't find a single subject in this book that I, myself, have not struggled with and figured out through trial and error.
I'm very proud of this new edition of the book, because it's a culmination of everything I have learned since its initial release.
I hope you will not only read this book, but learn from it and apply what I'm sharing to your life in efforts to improve it. Self-improvement, after all, is an ongoing process and you should never stop trying to make yourself better.
In my mind, The Art Of Approaching encompasses so much more than just "approaching women." It's about approaching maturity, success, and happiness. You know you aren't quite where you want to be just yet, and you're looking for a guidebook to help you find your way. I hope this book will be your guide.
Once you incorporate these teachings in your life, please email me and share your success stories. I always love to hear how my readers are able to change their lives. And if you have a question, I'm always available to help if I can. You can email me directly at [email protected].
So without further ado, please enjoy The Art Of Approaching 2ndEdition.
Wishing you success,
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