This is probably the most dangerous form of Opener there is, not just because it telegraphs interest quite blatantly (and therefore your intention) but it is also the easiest for a girl to reject.
However, if pulled off correctly, the Direct Opener can be very effective.
The purpose of a Direct Opener is to automatically take charge of the situation you're in, and impose your agenda on your target.
It is a very blunt way of taking over your target's reality and imposing your own upon them. But it's this imposition that also creates resistance from your target.
However, if you're skillful enough a conversationalist to bypass any resistance, this type of Opener can get you in with your target fast!
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