Crippling

Comparing People with the bad, confidence-destroying, habits use comparisons as attempts to prove, beyond any doubt, that they are inferior or superior in some way to another person. Whenever you say I'm better looking than that guy, I can get more girls than him, or That girl is ugly, I could easily get her to sleep with me, you're giving yourself false approval that provides false courage. The effect is temporary and never fixes the deep-rooted problem of your bad habit. Why Because this is a...

Confidence

Calmness In order to think clearly, you have to be in a calm state of mind. You don't need to be zen-like in your calmness, just calm down a little in order to get your wits about you. Anger and anxiety are fast acting emotions, they come on quickly, but they can also cool down just as quickly. When you experience bad emotions, try to calm yourself. Take deep breaths, close your eyes, clear your head, say I will calm down and think three times to yourself. Same if you're feeling sad, lonely, or...

Women And Social Circles

I'm a nerd. I like to watch TV, go to movies, read books, play on my computer, and even partake in the occasional MMORPG. But when I'm not waxing philosophical about who could kick who's ass -- Kirk or Han Solo -- I'm out trying to pick up chicks. The thing is, what I do is cold approaches. Cold Approaches are basically approaches where you approach a woman you do not know in the hopes of attracting her so you can lay her. Without a doubt, this is probably the...

Secret 1 The Vertical Scan

This is a major body language cue, and one that is hard to pick up if you're not paying attention. Think about a woman you've seen that you found attractive. What did you do Catch one look at her face, then looked down over her body, going from head to foot, right In short, you were checking her out. Women do the same thing. When they see a man they're attracted to, their eyes will go from his face to his feet, because they want to see the whole package. When you make eye contact with a woman,...

Body Language

Okay, we covered a lot of this in The Art Of Body Language earlier. But be aware that there is a certain type of body language you want to use when approaching someone for the first time. Understand, words are not the only thing we use to communicate with others. The way we carry ourselves says a lot about us. If we have bad body language, then no matter what we say, we could be perceived as weak or unconfident -- two major turn offs for women. So Body Language is something you need to keep in...

What Your Body Language Should Be

Your appearance is part of your Body Language. Not the appearance you're born with, however, but the way you shape how you look. It is through how you rearrange your appearance that you transmit your sexuality to others. When you see a beautiful woman with an average or below-average guy, and you ask her why she finds him attractive, she may say something along the lines of I don't know. It's just something about him that he has like an energy or an aura. Actually, it's nothing of the sort. In...

How To Read A Womans Body Language

The old saying is Actions Speak Louder Then Words, and nothing could be more true. If you can learn how to read what a woman's body tells you, you will always know which women are interested and open to your advances, and which women you're wasting your time with. These body language cues are what I like to call Approach Invitations. They're gestures that signal a willingness and openness to talk to you. They can also be strong indicators of attraction, so keep your eyes open for them, you'll...